Laziness is a big problem in education.
First, how to educate? Are you lazy? human
Does it taste good？ Mostly because these children can get delicious food easily, and over time, they take it for granted, so? Does it taste good？ Habits are formed. Food comes too easily to breed? Lazy? Bad habits. Behind all this, parents spoil their children too much. With a little observation, it is not difficult to find this.
Many years ago in my hometown, there was a family. Three brothers had only one son. This son is spoiled by his elders. In those days, the children of ordinary families didn't even have enough to eat, but he could eat fried rice with eggs every day. The whole family can only eat meat once a month. He can eat meat twice a week. At that time, four or five-year-old children were going to work in the fields, but their family was afraid that he would suffer a little, and they would not even let their children do any housework. Children who grow up in extreme doting inevitably form lazy habits. The sober people in their family saw the danger: spectrum (the name of this only child)! Pu, you are so lazy. When your father and we both die, you must be begging.
Sure enough, he became the only beggar in our village after all his elders died. The story of spectrum has also become a common material for parents in our village to educate their children not to be lazy.
Therefore, to eradicate children's laziness, we must first eradicate parents' doting. Education experts say that if you want to destroy your child, promise him everything. Most doters belong to parents who meet all the requirements of their children. To satisfy children's unreasonable demands is to spoil and indulge. Professor Yang Yongming, a famous family education expert, said that the secret of all family education lies in proper love. To meet the unreasonable demands of children, unprincipled love is to follow? Just right? Contrary to. Lazy parents, if you can't cure your doting, children's lazy lifestyle can't be eliminated.
Therefore, to eradicate children's laziness, we must first eradicate parents' doting.
Now let's talk about some specific methods to educate lazy children.
1. Restrict the supply of delicious food. If you want to eat more delicious food, you must do more housework and exchange your own labor for delicious food.
Reduce the food supply by 80%, make children feel uncomfortable and anxious, and have a stronger desire for food. At this time, parents told these children that if they want to eat again, they must mop the floor, clean up the room, learn to cook and buy food. In this way, in the pursuit of food, children's labor consciousness and habits are gradually developed. Let them know that food is not taken for granted.
Can developing labor consciousness and habits be curbed? Are you lazy?
2. Give proper education.
You can tell your child how hard it is for parents to earn money and how much it costs them to eat endless meals. You can also tell your children that if you control your diet and stick to it for a long time, there will be a lot of savings at home. This savings can be used for traveling, and it can also be used to pay off the mortgage, so as to reduce the pressure on parents to repay the loan.
Let children realize the serious consequences of laziness with the fate of eternal laziness. I believe that the story of hometown genealogy should be a typical one. There are such people and stories everywhere. The lazy people recorded in books, the lazy people that children can see and hear, these stories will make some children realize.
The more important education is to cultivate children's life ideals and work hard for them. Of course, ideals can be divided into short-term goals and long-term goals. When children work hard for short-term goals and look forward to their ideals in life. For them, food is already dispensable.
Children with dreams and ideals will not be lazy.
Second, how to educate people who don't like learning?
This is almost the basic dilemma of current education. In the current educational environment, it is difficult for students to love learning from the heart.
For this almost unsolvable topic, Jiang Haizhi can only try to talk about his personal humble opinion.
1. Teachers and parents should love learning.
At present, the strangest phenomenon is that teachers and parents who almost never take the initiative to study are pressing students and children to study hard all day. As far as Chinese teachers are concerned, Chinese teachers who almost never read or write ask students to read and write all day.
Practice speaks louder than words. Some teachers and parents spend their spare time chasing plays, playing cards, playing ball games and playing mobile phones. And little study or research. In this way, the oral education of teachers and parents to students and children is very pale.
If children want to learn, our teachers and parents should first set an example. We have some excellent Chinese teachers who insist on reading and writing, and have the goal of reading and writing every month every year. They often share their books with students and show them their articles. These Chinese teachers educate their students with their own practical actions, and reading and writing can truly become a way of life.
The current Chinese curriculum standard requires that a certain number of famous books must be read in different learning periods, and a must-read bibliography and a recommended bibliography have been set up. In junior high school, the curriculum standard lists 12 must-read masterpieces. If our parents can read a famous book with their children and share their reading experience with each other, I believe the children's reading enthusiasm will definitely improve a lot.
Reading with children is the best learning and education for children.
2. Give proper education.
We can educate children to love learning from two aspects: the interest of knowledge itself and the effectiveness of improving test scores. In fact, any subject, if really learned, is interesting. This is the characteristic of knowledge itself. Confucius pointed out more than two thousand years ago? Good people are not as good as happy people? There is no meaning without knowledge. If our teachers want students to like their subjects, we must first show their interest in the subject and let students enjoy it deeply.
Of course, the effectiveness of test scores can also promote students' love for learning. This is probably what most teachers are particularly good at at at present, so Jiang Hai will not state it.