Sometimes I feel that everything in this world is disturbing, and no one can imagine all the possibilities. What you think is impossible is actually happening to others. Many people always feel that they can see through everything because of the limitation of their own vision, but they don't know that he is just a frog in the well.
It is this kind of person who sits on the sidelines, judges things short-sighted and makes some ridiculous remarks. Imagine yourself as a master who sees through everything, but don't know that in the eyes of others, he is just a ridiculous buffoon.
Aside from these digressions, I think the world is full of miracles. I believe many people don't know that there is a profession where they can see all the ugliness of human nature and meet things that others look wonderful. This occupation is: paternity tester.
According to a paternity tester who has worked for ten years, most of the things he has encountered in these years are too wonderful to be true, and human nature is often invisible in the face of paternity testing.
In this profession, they are mostly exposed to the marriage of husband and wife, so many times, they have looked down on marriage.
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I had the privilege of interviewing one of the paternity testers, and he told me something that I thought was particularly wonderful, but he thought it was normal.
After listening to this story, my heart was shocked. But judging from his eloquence, I believe he is not lying.
Think of it as a story.
The paternity tester received an old lady about sixty years old at work not long ago. When I came, I looked flustered and tangled. He enlightened the elderly out of professional habits.
The old man told him that he wanted to have a paternity test. The appraisers are her son and grandson, and she wants to know if the grandson is her own.
For this situation, he has long been accustomed to it. Many times, the elderly will secretly identify whether their grandchildren are biological. This kind of thing has long been common. So as requested, he told the old man something related.
After the appraisal, he took a look and found out whether the result was biological or not. These two people are not related by blood.
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When the old man came to get his grades, he glanced at the test sheet and suddenly sat on the ground and cried.
He hurried to comfort the old man. Most people in this line of work have the ability to comfort others. It can be said that even if you don't do this line, you will be more than enough to be a psychotherapist in the future.
After the old man calmed down, he slowly told the story.
Her son is big and strong. He married his daughter-in-law Xiao Fen a few years ago. For this daughter-in-law, the old man liked it at first. Xiao fen is beautiful and sweet, and often makes her mother-in-law happy. Mother-in-law thinks it is a blessing for her son to marry a daughter-in-law like Xiao fen.
Less than seven months after they got married, Xiao Fen gave birth to a boy. At first, my mother-in-law was a little skeptical. Did two people get pregnant before they got married? She asked her son, who told her that Xiao fen was pregnant and they were going to get married. My mother-in-law had no doubt and began to take care of her grandson.
In order to take care of her grandson, her mother-in-law lives in her son's house. Mother-in-law gradually felt that her daughter-in-law was not as good as before.
On weekdays, Xiao Fen spends at least ten hours playing mobile phones at home 24 hours a day. Play while eating, play when going to the toilet, chat, play Tik Tok and take care of everything at home.
What particularly annoys her mother-in-law is that Xiao fen ignores Da Zhuang and doesn't even have a good tone to say a word. Sleep until 1 1 every morning, get up and sit on the bed and play with your mobile phone. Don't sleep in the middle of the night, sleep for several days without brushing your teeth or washing your face.
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A few days ago, Da Zhuang saw that his mother was unhappy. She talked to Xiao fen several times in private, but it was useless. Instead, she lost her temper with Daqiang and twisted his arm black and blue.
The mother-in-law couldn't stand it anymore, so she coaxed Xiao fen and didn't say a word to her from beginning to end. Unexpectedly, Xiao fen was lying on the ground, calling her mother-in-law an old witch and saying that her whole family had United to bully her as a foreigner.
Mother-in-law was very angry and went home after taking Xiaofen's confinement. After returning home, she told her husband about her daughter-in-law. At first, her husband told her not to worry about young people.
Since then, my son has often reported good news to his mother, but since then, her mother-in-law's impression of Xiaofen has changed a lot, so she often goes to see her son.
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has also begun. Xiao fen actually doesn't like her mother-in-law coming to their house often and telling her about her life. My mother-in-law really doesn't like her being lazy all day and often talks about her.
Once, my mother-in-law said a few words to Xiao fen. I didn't expect Xiao fen to start yelling at her mother-in-law hysterically and drive her away. Angered my mother-in-law.
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Da Zhuang heard the two men quarreling and hurried out to stop the fight. Unexpectedly, Xiao fen took Da Zhuang and told him to drive his mother away and never come to their house again. Dazhuang disagreed. Xiao fen began to hit him, and her mother-in-law hurried to pull, and the three of them were in a mess.
When her mother-in-law recovered her breath, Xiao fen was still swearing there. Mother-in-law pointed at her angrily and scolded: "Get out of here, and I'll ask Dazhuang to divorce you tomorrow, you bitch!" " "
I didn't expect Xiao fen to be furious and call a spade a spade: "what are you pretending to be with me, you old witch?" The child is not yours. " Realizing that she had let slip, she quickly changed her mouth and said something else.
But the listener was interested, and her mother-in-law wrote this sentence down. She also began to doubt, because her grandson didn't look like a big man when he grew up, and her mother-in-law was careful and took their blood for paternity test. The result came out, not his own.
My mother-in-law is very sad, and she is angry and resentful when she thinks that her son has helped others raise children for so many years.
As soon as she settled down, she called her son and told him the truth. Before leaving, the old man always said bitterly that they must divorce.
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When the paternity tester finished the story, my heart was shocked. Because I never thought there was a worse story in real life than TV series.
In fact, everyone regards this as a story or a fact. The original intention of reading a story is not to watch the excitement, but to learn something from it.
Many people think these stories are made up and too bloody after reading them. Then, without thinking about anything, it passed. In fact, the original intention of the story is not like this. I hope everyone can learn something from it. We know a lot about marriage, but once it comes to reality, we don't know what to do.
This story shows a possibility to let everyone know what to do in the face of such a thing.
Marriage is a difficult thing, and it needs both husband and wife to manage it for the rest of their lives. Once they relax, they are likely to give up all their efforts. Each of us needs to learn how to run a marriage.