The most incompetent way for parents to educate their children is to quarrel or beat or punish them. It is the best time to mold children when they are underage, because at this time, children's minds are still developing and their understanding of the world is at a standstill. Need good guidance. Parents are the best first teachers. Why do you say that? Because from birth to now, parents are the people who accompany us the most. Parents spend all their efforts on their children. Why? Parents also want to expect their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed! Therefore, we can't live up to our parents' expectations. (The higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment) But you have to work hard, otherwise how will you face yourself in 20 years? Parents are their children's first teachers, and they will influence their children with their own way of speaking (personal rest) and behavior! At this time, parents should pay attention to their words and deeds and not affect their children's growth. For example, if a father smokes and drinks, it may affect his children, and he will smoke and drink in the future. Or a fierce quarrel between husband and wife may lead to children not talking, or not sure that they want to go home, or lock themselves in the room, and so on. These have a great influence on children, so parents should learn from them!

Parents' most incompetent way of education:

One: Corporal punishment

Corporal punishment may affect the child's mood, and the child may think that I have tried my best. Why do I need corporal punishment? Is it because I did something wrong? I will change it next time. Children think so, parents don't know. Parents only know that their children have made mistakes and should be punished. This is not right. We should communicate with our children in time to let them know that corporal punishment is not an end, but to let them know their mistakes. Don't make similar mistakes again! Parents can tell their children why corporal punishment, the purpose of corporal punishment, and explain why children make mistakes! Only in this way can children grow up healthily.

Second, noisy children.

Noisy children only annoy their parents, who don't want to communicate with them or do anything. They will only seal themselves off and get deeper and deeper. Parents quarrel with their children now, and children will quarrel with their children when they become parents in the future. This is a vicious circle! Noisy children will also have a certain psychological impact on children, so that children hate their parents!

Third, hit the child.

As the saying goes, a stick makes a dutiful son. However, you should explain to your child why you did this after the fight, and let the child know that the purpose of doing this is to let the child realize his mistake. It will also have a shadow on the child's psychology.

To sum up, I think parents are incompetent. The way of education is to make children happy by quarreling, corporal punishment and beating. Parents are the rain and sunshine that moisten their children.