Parents should shape their own image. Be firm and bold in doing things, be calm in the face of problems, be calm in the face of things, especially mothers, and try not to show weakness in front of children. Parents are the best teachers for children.

Opportunity of frustration education

It is very important to grasp the opportunity of frustration education and take into account the endurance of children of different ages. It not only encourages people to resist setbacks, but also is good at protecting their self-confidence.

Intuitive understanding of setbacks

When children are faced with difficulties, parents should let them intuitively understand the development process of things, and gradually realize the universality and objectivity of setbacks from repeated experiences, so as to truly feel that they will encounter difficulties in doing anything, and the joy of success comes from solving problems. Only by letting children feel and understand setbacks in overcoming difficulties can they cultivate their fearless ability in the face of setbacks.

Face the challenge bravely

When children encounter difficulties, we should educate them to adopt an evasive attitude and encourage them to face reality and bravely challenge. A sentence of "You can do it", "You are so brave", "Well done" and "Look at what you have done" can help children build up confidence and motivate them to overcome difficulties, which makes "You can do it" among parents become their own "I can do it"!