For example, shaping children's autonomous learning ability and interest in learning is based on longer-term interests. Although the actual effect of scoring may not be obvious in the short term, in the long run, it will cultivate children's comprehensive ability, but it is far from being compared with the form of doing problems. However, education is empty with thoughts and no actions, which is obviously not enough. We need parents to take concrete actions. How to educate at home with peace of mind and cultivate excellent children, I share the following six suggestions here: constantly improve and perfect myself.
Parents are children's first teachers, but not every parent knows how to educate their children. In order to educate their children well, everyone needs to constantly improve and perfect themselves and become a standard parent who meets the educational requirements and the standards of children's development trend. The implication of this sentence is that we parents don't have to compare our children with other people's children, but should try our best to motivate our children to compare with their past selves until they develop into better self-role models.
One of the characteristics of parent-child interaction is to say everything, and everything our parents say and do is in the eyes of children. Therefore, if our parents want to educate their children well, it is very important to set an example for their children and let them develop into their true selves. Building a harmonious family environment for children is far more necessary than university education, and the key to family education lies in building a harmonious family environment. A harmonious family environment can give children the elements they need to develop and make them better. When children live in a harmonious family environment, students' psychological security can be realized, and they will become more confident and calm.
It is not difficult to imagine that if a child lives in an unharmonious family environment for a long time, it is an extravagant hope to become a healthy person, let alone an adult. A harmonious family environment is reflected in the mutual respect of family members, including children. In other words, it is not only reflected in mutual respect between adults, but also in adults' attention to children's personality, which is usually ignored by many families.
A harmonious family environment is also reflected in the fact that education is not the only struggle of father or mother. For example, father's absence and mother's anxiety in children's education are not the manifestations of a normal family environment. Usually, parents cooperate and cooperate with each other in education, resulting in a complementary relationship in education. A harmonious family environment is also reflected in the fact that parents try to keep the educational model of both sides consistent. If the educational consciousness is inconsistent, it is easy for children to be at a loss and seriously weaken the actual effect of education. A harmonious family environment is also reflected in the fact that parents can treat their children's development in a diversified way, not just on grades, so that children can have free room for growth and their hobbies and specialties can be fully developed.