When it comes to educating children, many parents have not deliberately cultivated their children's mentality. It is good for children to take fewer detours according to their own experiences and losses, but their life, psychological state and personality are all influenced by their parents.

When children reach junior high school, there are more and more courses. Instead of educating children with encouragement every time, as in primary school, children may encounter difficulties, explore the opposite sex, and feel ashamed and conservative. At this stage, parents should be well guided and don't feel embarrassed about these educational knowledge. Girls' education is the most important thing. Because they are afraid of some changes in their bodies and things from the unknown, she doesn't know, so parents should patiently explain and guide them. Men will also have embarrassing situations, so just guide the children slowly. Children may be embarrassed to talk. Children are broad-minded, upright, full of sense of justice and maintain positive energy. Isn't this the best reward for us as parents?

From junior high school to high school, we should also pay attention to children's habits. Help children to correct bad habits. Otherwise, high school will be hard to change. Immature mind is the best time to cultivate children's character. If you don't have much time to teach your children, please be yourself. Parents spend the longest time with their children. Children learn from their parents' behavior. Because children think their parents are doing the right thing. Father is the hero in children's hearts, and the hero in his own heart learns the way of doing things, living habits and all aspects of life.

If you find that children are not good at anything, don't like learning, bully classmates, and always make trouble in the classroom. Parents must correct it in time. Teachers may not listen, but parents will certainly listen. Obviously, I don't like studying because my grades are not good and I can't keep up with my study progress. Parents can teach you homework and preview and review every day. People who bully their classmates must have learned something that appeared in TV movies. Then let him watch less TV and movies from now on, and have the opportunity to take him to nursing homes and zoos. If you disturb the classroom discipline, you can look at your child's grades first. It is impossible for a child with good grades to disturb discipline. You can also talk to your child directly to see if you can solve the problem after being treated unfairly at school. If the child has problems, parents must bear the main responsibility, correct them in time, and let him be positive and learn a healthy and happy life. This is what parents should do.