Sister Zheng in the office was also very moved by the story. Her daughter just turned 10 this year, and she doesn't know enough about the world. Moreover, the daughter is kind, and Sister Zheng is afraid that the child will be cheated.
Last weekend, Zheng Jie accompanied her daughter to fly a kite in the square. Because my daughter drank too much water, she was in a hurry to go to the toilet. Zheng Jie has been playing with her mobile phone, waiting for the child to come back. Half an hour passed, and she still didn't see the child come back. Sister Zheng seems a little anxious. She ran to the toilet to look for her daughter, but no one was seen. Later, she saw her daughter in a gazebo, but she was safe and sound.
However, there is a pregnant woman next to her daughter. After careful inquiry, Zheng Jie learned that when her daughter went to the toilet, she saw a pregnant woman slipping on a water stain. Her daughter did not hesitate to run to help, and after helping the pregnant woman, she helped her lift the heavy things in her hand, which delayed the time.
The pregnant woman thanked her daughter and praised her as a kind child. Sister Zheng is also proud of her daughter now. Just after returning home, Zheng Jie gave her daughter some education. If she wants to do good deeds in the future, she can seek the help of adults first, so as to save lives and avoid being hurt.
My daughter doesn't understand why helping others hurts. Sister Zheng doesn't know how to explain it. She just warned her daughter that it would be nice to be more prepared in today's society. It is not to educate children to be indifferent, but to use kindness in the right place.
Adults change? Smart? After that, it is easy to abandon kindness, which is not worth promoting. This also proves that kindness is not easy to grasp, especially children, who have never experienced the sinister society and do not know that kindness sometimes brings disasters to themselves.
At this time, it is very important for parents to educate their children. There are many things that can't be done in this society, so we should teach our children experience. If you don't want your child to be cheated in the future, parents must tell him: Don't be too kind when you meet these four things!
In these four cases, the child does not have to be kind, and you are weak and strong.
Children are always the weak side in this society, and their awareness and social skills are not as good as those of adults.
Most of the bad guys in society are played by adults. If a child meets an adult for help, he must be careful except asking for directions. It's normal that adults sometimes let their children run errands. If a stranger makes such a request to a child, you should refuse decisively, and don't be afraid to offend an adult, because it is unreasonable.
There are many people in the railway station of every city. One day, Xiao Li was still waiting for the bus to go home after school. He was sending a message to his classmates on his mobile phone when suddenly an adult came up and said? Son, can you call me on your mobile phone? ?
Xiaoli looked up. A middle-aged man doesn't look like a bad guy, but a mobile phone is very important to Xiaoli. What's more, there are so many people around, why do you want to borrow it from yourself? Hesitated, Xiaoli just shook her head, and the middle-aged man didn't say much and walked away with a smile.
After returning home, Xiaoli told her mother about it, and her mother felt that Xiaoli's approach was right. Mother told Xiaoli that if an adult is in trouble and knows that the child is incompetent, she will definitely ask an adult for help. Those who can talk to children are definitely not good people. If this happens again next time, you must avoid or ask the police for help in time to ensure your personal safety.
2. In a closed environment
If people want to ensure that their interests are not infringed, they need to be alert to unfamiliar environments.
If an adult says to a child, let's go to my house. I have delicious food and fun at home. ? Children should remember not to be tempted by these interests. Nine times out of ten adults have ulterior motives.
Or the old man fell on the side of the road. In this case, the old man asked the child to send him home, and the child had better not agree immediately. On the one hand, the elderly may have been injured, and moving at will may cause secondary injuries. On the other hand, children's strength is not enough to support adults, but some adults with common sense will not let children help.
If children want to solve problems without being cheated, they can ask adults around them for help. Don't go to a stranger's house. In a closed environment, once something happens, there is no chance to escape.
3. When kindness will have bad consequences.
Kindness sometimes backfires. Sometimes there are often stray cats and dogs in the community. Xiaoye and his companions often see them when they are playing downstairs. Because it is wild, cats and dogs often have a meal. Xiaoye feels sorry for them and often secretly takes some ham from home to feed them.
After a long time, cats and dogs have expectations for grandpa's food, and more and more cats and dogs join them. Xiaoye was frightened by this situation. People in the community also found that they have seen many wild cats and dogs recently.
Most importantly, these cats and dogs are restless. Once, the children in the community were bitten by wild dogs. Fortunately, the child's mother found it timely and went to the doctor immediately, and no major problems were found.
Only after the incident did Xiao Ye's mother know that Xiao Ye had been feeding wild cats and dogs, and warned Xiao Ye not to feed any more. Xiaoye felt wronged about this matter, and her mother knew that Xiaoye was from the heart, but such behavior led to disaster.
There are so many cats and dogs in the community, which is really unsafe. Kindness is ok, but be careful not to bring unnecessary trouble to others, otherwise the loss will outweigh the gain.
4, too kind, easy to cause greed.
To say that a person is kind must be because he has done something good. Almost everyone believes that there are more good people than bad people in this society. With this belief, even if he encounters embarrassing things, his heart can be restored. So everyone tries to be a good person, but some people are still difficult to be saved.
I've heard too many examples of good people subsidizing students, spending their whole lives trying to train strangers into college students, in exchange for endless demands, insufficient tuition fees and even more living expenses. If you don't get it, you will scold it and even hold a grudge.
So don't overestimate people's hearts, thinking that giving goodwill will make others know how to be grateful. This is not an absolute thing.
Therefore, kindness should also pay attention to the timing, first judge everything, consider whether others really need your help, and then put kindness into practice.
The world needs kind people. First of all, good people should not be used by bad people to show their true value.