I believe that as long as they are independent parents, most of them will have disputes with the older generation on parenting, because there are many differences between traditional parenting and modern scientific parenting. However, there are still many different ideas when facing children. At this time, we must pay attention not to blindly deny the work of the elderly. Now there is a phenomenon in society that no matter what her mother-in-law does, she will be rejected by her daughter-in-law. Because of one mistake, the whole person was wrong. In fact, this is the main reason for the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in modern times.

Intimidation, to find out the harm caused by wrong upbringing, must be a real case. In fact, this should be the simplest and rudest way. Old people are most likely to believe the reports of experts and authoritative media, so when we find that the old people's parenting style is inappropriate, we first ask for a certificate.

Unconfirmed views do not completely prove in-laws wrong. The direction of verification: lectures by authoritative media and experts, and some related accident cases. Then show the collected evidence to the old man. If parents still don't believe it, then take a tough stance and make rules. After all, it is useless for an old man who doesn't even believe in authority to reason.

In fact, this is a common way for me to negotiate with the father. I seldom take the initiative to ask the old man, for fear that the old man will have ideas. I think my daughter-in-law has many ideas, and my husband can effectively avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Be sure to remind your husband that in the process of communication, you must emphasize that it is a personal opinion. Generally, men with high emotional intelligence know how to communicate effectively. If I face a husband with a big pig's hoof, I think it is more reliable for my daughter-in-law to do it herself.

There are some ways that are easy to hurt the baby in parenting, and the elderly are unwilling to change. Parents are advised to eat by themselves: Old people like to chew their own food or feed it to their babies with their own chopsticks, which is criticized by many young people. Recently, it has been reported that old people feed their babies with their own chopsticks, which leads to bacterial infection in their mouths. Therefore, diet is a matter of principle, and parents are advised to do it themselves.

Way to go to the toilet: generally, after one year old, the elderly like to pee with shit, which is actually not desirable. Therefore, it is suggested that before the age of three, parents can cultivate their baby's habit of going to the toilet independently during the day and using diapers at night.

Single complementary food: In fact, the skills of making complementary food for the elderly are very simple. Parents can prepare complementary food with rich ingredients and various forms for their children.

Feeding method: Old people like to rush to feed, parents should be diligent and insist on letting their children eat by themselves. After eating, parents should wash their dishes.

There are actually many different ways. Parents are advised not to worry too much if they can't cause physical development or psychological harm to their baby. Children are not as fragile as their parents think, but some principled issues are involved. Parents had better come by themselves, because it is difficult for us to change the traditional concept that the elderly have persisted for decades.