1, no sex.
People in China always talk about transsexuality, thinking that it is something that can't be said on the table. In fact, it is this psychology that makes teenagers know nothing about sex! We should know that many teenagers learn about sex from pornography, which can easily make teenagers fall into disrespect for sex, so we should open the topic moderately, but pay attention to the scale!
2. Educate teenagers about sexual morality.
In youth, men and women love spring scenery, and naturally they will make friends with the opposite sex and fall in love. At this time, they should be educated in sex morality in time. On the one hand, we should encourage them to have proper intercourse with men and women, on the other hand, we should guide them not to have puppy love, especially not to have improper sexual contact in the process of love.
The situation in foreign countries is more serious, although it is not as serious as in China. "The incidence of teenage sexual behavior and unmarried teenage pregnancy suspects has indeed increased in China." Therefore, it is very necessary to strengthen the sexual moral education of teenagers and fully explain the consequences of premarital sex.
3. Educate young people about contraception.
Many teenagers are young and ignorant, and they steal the forbidden fruit on impulse, which leads to the pregnancy of girls. It can be said that the consequences are serious. You know, after having an abortion in your teens, you may not be able to have children. Therefore, it is very necessary to educate teenagers about contraception for preventing unmarried pregnancy, promoting the harmonious sexual life after marriage, preventing sexual dysfunction and effectively carrying out family planning work.
4. The school organizes lectures on health knowledge.
Many schools simply don't take health knowledge seriously. Generally, let boys go out to play, and then tell girls how to use menstrual towels and other sexual knowledge. This is actually very bad. Because adolescent men and women actually have a vague impulse to understand the physiological structure of the opposite sex. Although there are biology classes in junior high school, there are only a handful of teachers who really explain the physiological structure of men and women and how women conceive and have babies. This has caused a very bad phenomenon. Since the teacher doesn't talk in class and goes back to his parents' house, then the children will secretly watch porn. The direct impact is that it may cause sexual impulse, which is not conducive to health, and may also lead to illegal and criminal things!
Parents should be the first willful teacher of children.
Many parents in China are afraid or disdainful of talking about sex with their children, but if there is no sex, how can children come? Many people say they found it in the trash can! This is actually an invisible harm to the child, because he knows that he is not his own! Therefore, parents must play the role of their children's first "sex teacher". For girls, that is to tell them how to use menstrual towels and sanitary napkins, how to use nursing lotion to clean private parts, and how to deal with gynecological diseases. For boys, we should teach them what is the bottom line between men and women, and how to get along with girls we like without hurting them. Problems such as nocturnal emission are normal physiological phenomena, and they should be taught to alleviate their desire for sex through correct channels. There is another important point. For our own safety, we must carefully explain the transmission channels, ways and prevention methods of various sexually transmitted diseases. In particular, it is necessary to clarify the spread and prevention of AIDS! If conditions permit, both girls and boys should be vaccinated with human papillomavirus, which can prevent many gynecological diseases and cancers. Of course, contraception should also be taught.
Besides school education and family education, adolescent sex education also includes self-study and social education. However, for the healthy growth of teenagers, it is best to have sex education books and special social institutions to carry out this task. Otherwise, it is easy to have all kinds of bad problems!
6. Guide how to make sexual life harmonious.
For married young couples, it is very important to give them some knowledge about how to make their sexual life harmonious, which is very important for their family life happiness.
7. Teach children how to protect themselves.
Teenagers are in the period of growth and development, and their secondary sexual characteristics are gradually maturing. But the society is becoming more and more unsafe, and many people will turn their attention to children, so it is very important to teach children how to protect themselves correctly! Generally speaking, it is best for girls to go to school and boys to go home together. You know, today's society, it can be said that everyone has it. It is not only dangerous for girls to travel alone, but also for boys with delicate eyes! Children can be equipped with anti-wolf spray, high-decibel alarm and cool self-defense sticks. In addition, considering force majeure, it is recommended to equip girls with condoms. In this way, even if an accident occurs, the probability of pregnancy can be minimized and the harm can be reduced! Of course, we all hope that this will not happen!