When a child conflicts with his peers, the wronged child will urgently need the comfort and help of his parents. Parents should not reprimand their children with reproachful language, which will increase their psychological burden. Parents should give them a chance to release their stress.
A hug or a kiss can make children feel that their parents are around. On the one hand, it can avoid the escalation of emotional runaway, on the other hand, it can feel the safe release of psychological pressure.
2. Don't teach children to "answer blows with blows"
"If he hits you again, you hit him hard."
Many parents face their children's conflicts and worry that their children will be bullied. They will instigate children in this way, or directly intervene in disputes between children to "vent their anger" for children. This practice has great disadvantages!
"Answer blows with blows" is not the fundamental way to solve the problem, it will give children the illusion of solving the problem by violence, and it will also cause a psychological pressure on children, which is not conducive to their future growth.
Help children analyze the causes of conflict.
After parents calm their children's emotions, they can have a good understanding of the incident with their children. Then help him analyze the reasons, ask yourself if there is anything wrong, whether the other party hurts himself unintentionally or intentionally, and take corresponding measures after finding out the truth.
Kindergarten children lack social skills, parents can teach them what they lack, help their babies realize what they should pay attention to, and correct them in the process of getting along with their partners in the future.