Education should start with children's psychology. The development of children is a matter of concern to their relatives. Efforts should be made to help children solve their growing troubles, and education should also follow the laws of children's physical and mental development. It is very important to cultivate children's ability. Let me share the education of children's psychology.

Education should start with children's psychology and hope that children will become dragons. It is the greatest pursuit of every parent's life, especially in today's society. Therefore, children grow up under the careful care of their parents. The so-called fear of falling in the hand, fear of falling in the mouth, everything is for the children. This is already the biggest goal and motivation of every family life with children.

As the post-80s generation, we grew up under the care of our parents. Since I was a child, I have gradually realized what my father used to say: "I don't know how expensive rice is, I don't raise children, and I don't know my parents' kindness." "Modern people know that parents are children's first teachers, and children's education should start from an early age. How many of them can be perfect in their children's education? I am an impatient person and a proud person, pursuing perfection in everything. From the time my son was in the belly, my husband and I felt that family education was very important for children, and we should give them a perfect family and a good education. After our son was born, we tried to give him the best life and education. After his first birthday, we began to consider kindergartens, visited many kindergartens, and finally chose the present Hope Kindergarten. Although it is not the best, it has a good reputation. It was also from our son's kindergarten that we began to really realize what quality education is.

Now my son is over four years old. From a baby who knows nothing, he has gradually become a naughty, playful, active and self-controlled child. At home, he often touches this and that, even washes his hands with tap water and pours hand sanitizer and shampoo all over his face. Every time I see my son being naughty, I will severely criticize and blame him. But gradually I found that what I did didn't work well at all. On the contrary, my son is more rebellious. The more you refuse to do it, the more he wants to do it secretly. At the beginning of this semester, Mr. Huang said that every parent should write an article about children's education, which made me pay attention to all kinds of information about children's education. Among the various parenting articles I have read in my impression, what impressed me the most is this sentence: "Whether a person can be happy in his life often depends on what habits and personalities he has developed since childhood. Parents should put the cultivation of children's good habits and character in an extremely important position during the growth of each child. In the process of a child's growth, he often encounters various problems. He is not only physically growing, but also psychologically in daily growing. Parents must not put all their energy into their children's life, body and study, while ignoring another important aspect of their growth. "

These words really touched me deeply. I don't think I will severely criticize my son when he is naughty in the future. I will tell him to pay attention to hygiene and safety when playing. In the future education of children, I will guard against arrogance and rashness, learn to put myself in the other's shoes, try to be friends with children, and understand their hobbies and real thoughts. I hope that I can give correct guidance during the critical period of my son's psychological growth, and I also hope that all parents can work together with teachers to lay a solid and good foundation for their children's bright future and let them have a healthy, perfect and kind heart!

Education should start with children's psychology. In recent years, the news of student suicide has been seen in the media. Although the specific reasons for their suicide are different, there are still some common factors, that is, these students all have certain psychological problems. For example, not long ago, a freshman girl from Guangzhou No.1 College fell to her death and wrote a 60-day countdown death diary.

It is understood that the girl who fell from the building wrote three suicide notes 60 days before her death. The suicide note said that since junior high school, the psychological load caused by long-term depression was too great, and she chose to commit suicide. While writing a suicide note, the deceased left a diary of the countdown to death in his QQ space. Regrettably, although some classmates and netizens of the deceased saw these words, they were all ignored. Some netizens think that the deceased is engaged in a "conspiracy" or a special day. It was not until after the incident that the classmates and friends of the deceased suddenly realized.

The girl's abnormal psychology began at a very young age. It can be seen that mental health must start with children. We should not be easily fooled by children's good appearance. For a long time, everyone thought that a child with optimistic appearance and a child who didn't make trouble at ordinary times were good children. As everyone knows, such children don't let us see their true image. Maybe they have serious psychological problems. Don't think that filial children will have no problem with good grades. Some children who look very good are drowned because they have heard too many good things since childhood. When they enter the society and suffer a little setback, they are at a loss. They can't handle the relationship with others well, they are narrow-minded and jealous of talents. For those children who are introverted and don't like to talk, we should pay more attention to them, communicate with them more, understand their ideas and correct their incorrect ideas. When they encounter a knot that cannot be solved in their hearts, they should solve it in time and seek help from a psychologist if necessary.