Needless to say, if there is a dispute between two children, parents must handle it correctly and analyze it according to the real reasons. Although respecting the old and caring for the young is an excellent tradition in China, we can't make a one-size-fits-all approach to specific matters. If Bauer is really arrogant and unreasonable, then parents also need to support Dabao and teach Bauer a lesson. Only in this way can the mental health of the two children be guaranteed.
It's definitely not right to talk about things by age and let the big one give way to the small one. Nowadays, in order to make themselves more relaxed, many parents always ask the older to give way to the younger, but this will bring many problems. First, Dabao will have psychological problems because of long-term unfair treatment. Secondly, Bauer will become arrogant and unreasonable because of being indulged, which is also very unfavorable for the child's future development.