What kind of teachers do students like? Someone has done a questionnaire survey, and the survey results are as follows:
1. Respect students, be amiable and considerate;
2. Treat students equally, without any "individual" or "special";
3. Don't satirize students or hurt people;
4. Prohibit corporal punishment or corporal punishment of students in disguised form;
5. The teaching method is unique and novel, the language is humorous and vivid, and the classroom atmosphere is active;
6. Have profound knowledge;
7. Be able to listen to students' opinions with an open mind;
8. Don't delay;
9. Reasonable arrangement of work;
10. Don't let parents come to school casually, and don't report to parents.
As can be seen from the above standards and rankings, Articles 1 and 2 show that it is very important to respect students and treat them equally, while Articles 3 and 4 are actually related to the dignity of students. It is not until Articles 5 and 6 that it is related to business, while Article 7 is still related to respect and equality, Articles 8 and 9 are related to teaching, and Article 10 is still related to respecting and trusting students. This shows how important it is for students to live a dignified study life at school. I think that having this analysis today will definitely be of great help to your future work.
Second, learn to care about students.
All learning processes are processes of understanding relationships. The ancients said: Learn from your teacher and believe in it. Children don't learn from teachers they don't like. Teachers who don't love their children can't get their children's love and can't enroll in school. We all know that children's learning is not for teachers, but children are different. In his mind, his study is for teachers. The teacher worked so hard to make him get a high score. If you don't love him, he won't like you, and he won't study the subject you teach seriously. Knowing this truth, our teachers should follow the trend and don't have to be angry with their children. Teachers love children, but also strive to make him feel your love for him, even if it is severe criticism, after the incident, there must be a loving ending. Some people say that I work like a top every day, one thing after another, and I'm exhausted. How can I be in the mood to give students immersion education? Think about it. What would you think if you were allowed to hold an object of 10 kg every day for seven or eight hours or even ten hours, for half a year or even a year, and the weight was increasing every day? I must think it's impossible. I can't stand it. But what if this thing is your own child? The fact is that most women still have a long way to go. Why doesn't the baby feel bitter and tired? Because there is love in it! With love, it is not a burden; With love, there is responsibility; With love, there is hope and motivation. I remember Professor Zhu Yongxin has a very good saying for you: Real education not only happens in the classroom, but also happens at any moment of communication between teachers and students. The heart of love is the irrigation of life and the influence of spirit on spirit. Love each other because of lovers, so education will have the temperature of life.
Third, learn to praise students.
The power of praise is great. Sometimes it can even change a person's life trajectory. When I was in primary school, there was a Chinese teacher named Zhao Wenhua. I can't remember how to write the fine print with a brush, just for his casual praise or bright red "Excellence" I do small homework that others don't write every day. And composition. I remember once I wrote a composition, and he read it in class as a model essay. Since then, in order to write a good composition and continue to win this honor, I began to read more books and others read comic books. I read Chinese and foreign classical masterpieces, many of which are still traditional Chinese characters. Although I didn't understand it at that time, I have completely forgotten it now. If this teacher were alive today, he would be over 50 years old, but about ten years ago, he had a myocardial infarction while drinking. When I was in a normal school, I felt that a composition that was ok was approved by the Chinese teacher with four words: neither fish nor fowl. Now I remember her name is Julie. Therefore, praise more and students will remember you; But don't be too picky, or students will remember you!
Fourth, learn to trust students.
The idea of student-oriented education and efficient classroom mentioned above is to respect, trust, liberate and make use of students. Establish a correct view of students, and believe that as long as the method is right, every child will have his own growth. Every child is the seed of a flower, but the flowering period is different. Some flowers bloom brilliantly from the beginning; Some flowers need a long wait. Don't look at some blooming flowers, just like them and ignore those that haven't moved yet. You must believe that all flowers have flowering periods. Even though some seeds will never bloom, they may be a towering tree. Teachers must give every child nutrients and soil to grow up, take good care of these flowers and watch them grow up slowly. Even if some flowers no longer like them, pretend to be actors and water and fertilize them regularly. Because of your watering and fertilization, it may grow into a lush tree. If you don't cultivate it, it will definitely die. As long as there is hope, you must work hard!
Fifth, learn to understand students.
There is a little story: the lamb invited the puppy to dinner. It prepared a table of fresh grass, and the puppy barely ate two bites and couldn't eat any more. A few days later, the puppy invited the lamb to dinner. The dog thought, I can't be as stingy as a lamb. I must treat it with the most splendid banquet. So the dog prepared a table of good ribs, and the lamb couldn't eat a bite. This story shows that mutual understanding is very important. Teachers must learn to put themselves in front of students. When encountering difficult things, first think about whether you have done similar things at school, and what are the ulterior reasons behind children doing these things. Don't ask parents about right and wrong easily, but give students who make mistakes a chance to correct their mistakes. Teachers have more understanding and tolerance, and children's sky will be higher and broader!
Sixth, we should learn to demonstrate to students.
As the saying goes, the power of example is infinite. Learning is some kind of imitation. Everything the teacher says and does is the object of students' imitation. I remember seeing a sentence from teacher Zhang Yi in Huimeitang: the teacher is the mirror of the child, and the child is the shadow of the teacher. Especially teachers who are loved, respected and respected by children are the objects that children deliberately imitate. Especially the head teacher, what kind of personality and conduct you have will often affect most of the students in the class. After three years, children often see the shadow of the class teacher. Therefore, teachers must learn to "pretend". Clothing, dressing, words and deeds, personality, gestures, smiles, attitudes, interpersonal relationships, etc. As long as you have children, you must learn to pretend. For example, you want to do a good job in class hygiene, or let students develop good hygiene habits, but you don't pay attention to it. Peel waste paper is thrown around casually, but you turn a blind eye to the garbage on the ground. Can children develop good hygiene habits? He swore after class and was extremely sarcastic to the students. Can the children in that class be pure in language? Therefore, to be a teacher, you must learn to be a teacher, and you must be respected to be a model!
(The little video I watched before the meeting is called "Every Child is a Champion", which contains many educational ideas, educational laws, educational ideas and educational principles. All the requirements I refined for you just now can be found in the film. I hope you can keep this video well, review it often and encourage yourself from time to time. )
Seven, we must learn to create happiness.
There is no trick to being a teacher, and there is a great future. Unlike civil servants and administrators, department-level officials can have a lot of power. We usually just get professional titles, higher wages and better treatment. But even such a wish is not easy to realize. The trend of future education reform is definitely to gradually separate professional titles from wages, or to have less correlation. More importantly, pay attention to performance. The treatment will not be much better, because don't say no money. Even if there is money, no one dares to spend it on bonuses and benefits because the policy does not allow it. Therefore, the nature of our profession determines that our teaching career will be dull, and there will be no great prosperity, but life can barely get by, that is, it is often said that the upper class is more than the lower class. Get used to this state of life and find pleasure in it, otherwise it will be really difficult to endure a career for decades. If you can't change, it's better to adapt; It is better to have fun from it than to suffer all your life. So, what's the fun? In fact, fighting with students is full of fun. Seeing students grow up, progress, grow up and understand, our happiness lies in this; When your students get excellent grades and more students are admitted to good schools, they will be successful in their careers, make small achievements or make a name for themselves. That is the happiness of teachers. In addition to the happiness brought by the realization of teachers' professional value, there is also a kind of happiness, that is, striving to achieve personal professional development and professional growth, becoming a famous teacher, gaining more professional prestige and sense of accomplishment, reading leisure books and writing blogs after teaching, which is also a kind of happiness. A teacher who can find happiness in his work will definitely be more willing to devote himself to education. Over time, the accumulated happiness will become the driving force for progress and motivate yourself to create more happiness.
Based on the above aspects, I have prepared a few words for you about what kind of teacher you should be, for your future reference only.
Respect students and treat them as equals;
Be strict with compassion and love your heart.
Talk about democracy and humor;
There are methods in teaching and the courage to explore.
Be good at learning and have a wide range of knowledge;
Love and dedication, selfless dedication.
Respect parents and know how to be tolerant;
Unite colleagues to achieve a win-win situation.