1, example education method, parents take the lead in setting an example, teachers take the lead in setting an example, and taking good people and deeds around them as examples will cultivate and infect children invisibly, so that they can form good habits. Therefore, parents should pay special attention not to say one thing and do another, which will have a great negative effect on their children. Parents must set an example.

2, frustration education law is not good for children's life. Parents can skillfully let their children accept some setbacks and let them know that they can't escape from difficulties, can't be negative and can't have resistance. They should face up to difficulties bravely, find ways to solve them and seek help from others.

3, confidence education law, in the usual study and life, to encourage children, appropriate praise, can not be severely reprimanded or beaten when children make mistakes, to encourage them to build confidence, encourage them to admit their mistakes, actively correct them after making mistakes, so that children are full of confidence.

4, interest cultivation method, parents should be good at actively discovering children's hobbies, no outstanding hobbies, to guide and cultivate children's interests, so that they can learn knowledge, learn methods and use their brains in interest.

5, environmental exercise method, parents can take their children to the actual environment, exercise their children, and let him gradually become brave and confident.