Many families are widows now. Basically, the mother is responsible for the children's life and education, while the father seems to just go to work, regardless of housework and children's education. If it weren't for a complete family for children, I believe the divorce rate would be higher now. This is why many young people are reluctant to get married, because there are many independent women in this society. They don't want to be dissatisfied wives after marriage. In fact, they are fully capable of supporting themselves before marriage.

Many men seem to think that he can earn money to support his family without doing anything else. He may feel that working outside is very stressful, while women don't have to consider financial pressure to take care of their children at home. They may think it will be easy, but in fact, taking care of children at home is like a 24-hour nanny, who needs to be on standby anytime and anywhere. Sometimes when the baby turns over, the mother will wake up for fear that she will feel uncomfortable or kick the quilt. Many men should never have experienced these experiences. Because they lie in bed every night and just fall asleep, they don't change whether the child is asleep or not, and they don't even know if the child has kicked the quilt. Even if Ma Bao doesn't sleep well, she still has to get up early the next day to prepare the children's breakfast, so she lives day after day. All the grievances and sorrows are digested by herself, because she has no ability to change this situation, or she has no conditions to divorce, and she never dares to divorce because she is afraid that the custody of the children will not be obtained.

I believe many people live in this kind of entanglement. Of course, some people don't care about feelings at all How disappointed is it to treat marriage like this? Perhaps as many people say, the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment, because many men play this role in marriage.