First of all, 14 years old is a rebellious period of adolescence. Psychologically speaking, children have stronger self-awareness and want to get rid of all control, but their thoughts are not mature enough and their ability is limited, so some of their views and practices are incredible, which is the so-called "rebellion" among the large population.

Since it has appeared, it is necessary to actively respond and help children to survive this special period smoothly. Here are some suggestions for your reference:

First, when children have these situations, as parents, they should first put themselves in their shoes, allow their children to show signs of growth, don't be surprised or scold them loudly, keep a peaceful and good attitude and try to be a good listener.

Second, change the relationship between mother and child (or father and son) into a friend relationship, communicate with children on an equal footing, and let children talk freely with us. Only by effective communication can we enter the children's world and perceive their thoughts and ideas. Remember that parents nag and chatter repeatedly when things happen, and don't speak in a rude tone, so that children are easily disgusted and are not conducive to narrowing the distance between you.

Third, spend more time with your children. At this age, this period, they are actually eager to be understood, to be concerned, and to be independent. If we give them enough love and care and give them more time and psychological space, they can get out of the rebellious period quickly.

Fourth, be careful not to force children to do things they don't want to do. For example, many parents want their children to help them realize their unfulfilled wishes, which will easily lead to confrontation.

The last sentence: Giving children a loving family is the best education for them.