The three points that most affect children are: the first point is about children's language, the second point is about parents' demonstration, and the third point is about parents' views on children.

In a variety show "Dear Little Desk" that Fu Seoul participated in, he first mentioned that the starting line is a false proposition, but most people think that the starting line of a child determines the ultimate growth height of the child. Most parents would rather spend expensive school districts and various expensive interest classes to train their children than let them grow up freely in childhood.

First, the child's starting line is a false proposition? However, in the program, Foer said for the first time that this is a false proposition. What affects children most is not interest classes, school districts or prestigious schools.

Second, parents cause children to feel inferior? Among these dear desks, there is a child named Panda Kai. He does well in his studies and always wins the championship in the competition. However, because his parents always have a feeling that they can't let their children go with the flow, they should make them realize that there are people outside the world. How can I be so good? What will mom say? Too many people are better than you? When the giant panda talks? How can I be so good? Mom will throw cold water on it? Are you good? Did you get full marks in all the exams? It is in this environment that giant pandas are hit hard every time. After being hit, Panda Kai gradually formed the idea that I am poor, which led to the inferiority of Panda Kai, so parents' language had a great influence on their children.

At the same time, parents are children's role models and their first teachers. When he first came into contact with the world, he first imitated it according to his parents, which I believe is beyond doubt.

At the same time, there are ways for parents to educate their children. If you protect him as a princess forever and keep him innocent of the world, it will actually be unfavorable for him to contact this society later. You are not cultivating a child, you are cultivating an adult, and you will grow into an adult who can shelter your family from the wind and rain in the later period.

These three points are the starting line for children, and these three points are all completed by parents. ?