Many parents told me that teachers are becoming more and more temperamental, and the management of children is becoming less and less strict. They make mistakes in time, which is also an anodyne criticism. Even some students can't help walking around the classroom in class. Many parents are worried. What happened to the teachers? How can students get good grades like this? In popular terms, teachers are all? Buddhism? have you finished?

However, the teachers are also very helpless, like this? Buddhism? Is this what we want? In the dead of night, teachers ask themselves thousands of times: won't our conscience hurt? However, what is the result of torture? Don't we want to? Buddhism? But we can't help it? Buddhism? . What if you don't do it? Buddhism? In this way, my reputation of lifelong teaching may be wasted and my salary will be deducted less. If it is serious, I may take the blame on my back and leave the podium in a disgraceful way, ruining my teaching career and career prospects.

Are there still few such warnings? Have you noticed that a teacher in Hunan gave his parents a report card, and finally knelt down to apologize to his parents and even was forced to resign? A teacher sent a photo of a student sleeping in class to parents, which attracted angry questions from parents; Students who have not finished their homework are also not allowed to send parents' groups on the grounds that it will hurt students' self-esteem; Have you noticed that a middle school teacher in Liaoning disciplined students and was claimed 30 thousand yuan for a ruler, which was discredited? A vice principal in Beijing punished the students who called names, and as a result, the position of vice principal was gone; What's more, Mr. Anonymous was fined for being a few minutes late for the student station, and was detained by his parents as the deputy director of the police station for seven hours. Another teacher was slapped on WeChat because she didn't have time to go home. A class teacher in senior three was called to the hospital by the parents of the students on the day of the end of the college entrance examination because he was in charge of playing mobile phones.

All these are not enough to arouse the vigilance of teachers? Finally, what did these parents and students get? I don't think so. Apologize is a big deal, and some even don't even have an apology. There are even voices on the Internet that the constraints on teachers are not enough and the society is too tolerant of teachers. If the teacher's corporal punishment of students was exposed, I'm afraid the teacher would have been suspended or even expelled.

The writer is a primary school teacher. I think students in the lower grades of primary school are the best age to cultivate good behavior habits. Their education needs the cooperation of their parents. Teachers will inform parents of the wrong choices or announce them in the group, hoping to attract parents' attention, cooperate with families and schools, and get good educational results. Do parents really think that a student in grade 12 is that strong? Self-esteem Parents use the so-called? Hurt the child's self-esteem? Taking this as an excuse, pointing fingers at teachers' normal teaching, or even sharply reprimanding them, will only make children go further and further on the wrong road. Children can't criticize if they violate discipline, and they can't criticize if their homework is not finished; Is it for children? Self-esteem or for parents' blx? This overprotection of parents will only hurt children. ? Spoil a child like a child? There are no twists and turns in the child's growth stage, no turmoil, no criticism. This is really for the children, okay? At school, can teachers? Buddhism? However, in society, will everyone be kind to him? Buddhism? ? Such children will inevitably suffer losses and stumble in society in the future.

Parents' blx leads to teachers'? Buddhism? . Watching children grow like weeds, but the rules are like nothing, we go our own way and can't get effective control. To tell the truth, as teachers, we are very anxious and heartbroken. However, there is nothing we can do. Because we have no right to punish students, every time we punish students, we have to bear huge professional risks. Strictly speaking, all punishments are corporal punishment or corporal punishment in disguised form. As long as parents complain, we will be severely punished. However, parents in blx, you can protect children for a while, but you can't protect them for a lifetime. Life is full of flavor, and children will try it eventually, sooner rather than later. Parents themselves are unwilling to criticize and educate their children, and teachers are not allowed to criticize and educate their children. Can they guarantee that others will not criticize and educate them in the future? There is no criticism of setbacks, only education of appreciation and praise, which is the crux of the frequent problems of contemporary children. Teachers' Buddhism can only make students suffer, and families and society can only bear the consequences!