Marriage is no joke. Pre-marital counseling can calm young people down from their excitement and think about whether they really know each other and whether they have psychological preparation and countermeasures for the problems they may encounter in the future, instead of getting married on impulse because of temporary enthusiasm. Research shows that couples who have participated in marriage counseling have improved their marital happiness by 30%, and the divorce rate has decreased by 365,438+0%. The necessity and importance of premarital counseling can be seen from this.
Premarital counseling is good, but not once and for all. Because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, children's education and other issues involved in marriage have also become the key factors for many couples to divorce in today's society. In my humble opinion, such questions should also be included in the counseling content, so that both husband and wife can be more aware of their responsibilities after marriage. In addition, the temporary counseling a few minutes before the license is not enough to make them deeply understand. The content of marriage counseling is more psychological. Only by truly understanding the connotation of marriage can we operate better. Whether it is necessary to arrange special counseling in advance according to the needs of different couples also needs careful consideration.
The starting point of premarital counseling is commendable, but I hope the relevant departments will not only formally implement it, but also seriously implement it.