Chinese traditional culture attaches great importance to etiquette. No matter in society or at home, people must abide by certain etiquette laws, such as observing the order of father and son, monarch and minister, respecting seniority, seniority and so on. The so-called state-owned laws have family rules. In China's traditional education system, families mainly undertake moral education tasks, while schools mainly undertake intellectual education tasks, with a clear division of labor. Nowadays, the importance of children's intellectual education is highly valued, so that families and schools put their own education emphasis on intellectual education. Who will pay attention to children's moral education? On the other hand, various slogans advocating the development of children's potential are prevalent in society. Parents are busy buying toys, books and training classes for their children, fearing that their children will lose at the starting line. After our "development", children's intelligence has developed well, and they have accepted a lot of information at an early age, which is much more mature than when we were young; But at the same time, we will also find that compared with our childhood, children seem to be "stunted" in other aspects. For example, grandparents are watching TV, and children switch to children's channels without consulting the remote control; There is no limit when playing with parents, and it will not be too light when playing with parents-pinch your nose and pull your hair. If these behaviors of children are trivial things in life, then with the growth of children, some trivial things will develop seriously. Children lack the concepts of "respecting the elderly" and "filial piety". It is said that some big cities have developed a new business: if the elderly with real estate can't get the care and support of their children, they will take their houses to live in nursing homes. Nursing homes are responsible for renting houses, and the rent is used as a source of expenses for the elderly in nursing homes. This new business reflects from the side that many children in society do not have the traditional virtue of "filial piety" of the Chinese nation. Today's children lack moral education, which is caused by our adults' neglect. Children become a "center" of the family from birth, and everyone serves them. This habit has been maintained until the children go to kindergarten, primary school, middle school ... delicious, fun and easy to use, all according to their abilities, parents, grandparents are automatically relegated to a secondary position. Over time, the child will think that everything should be based on his comfort and convenience. As for the rest of the family, he won't consider it, and it seems that he doesn't have to consider it. Therefore, in family education, parents are not only the guardians of children, but also the earliest teachers in charge of children's education and learning, and their role as examples can not be ignored.

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