Family is the first place for everyone to receive education. For anyone, the simplest and most basic education is done through family, especially through parents. Parents, as children's first teachers, have a direct influence on their growth and development.
And reading is definitely the best family education we can give our children!
Don't neglect the parent-child companionship in reading
As we all know, for young children, reading needs the company of parents.
However, some parents have come out against this statement. They think: how can they support their children when they leave their jobs and study with them every day? With what money to buy books? I prefer to earn more money to meet children's material needs than to sit together and read a book all day.
However, children grow up only once and miss the golden company, which can't be made up in the future.
In the hit drama "We Are Fine", the mother suffered from depression, fearing that she could not control her emotions and hurt her son, asked her husband for a divorce, ran away from home, and gave her son to her husband who had never taken care of her children.
As a result, the husband was too busy with his work to take care of his son. Finally, he found a nanny to look after his son's life.
Who knows, the nanny is unkind to the child, abusing him as a child who is not loved by his parents and not cooking for him. Finally, the child called the police and didn't dare to call his father.
There is a scene in the TV series that makes me particularly sad, that is, the child cried and said to his father, "I am your burden." I'm afraid to call you. You bother me and don't like me affecting your work. I am afraid that you will think that I am not sensible and finally don't want me. " Mom threw me to you, you threw me to strangers, and then they all left ... "
It's hard to imagine that this is what a 5-year-old said. It really hurts.
Parents are the people that children trust most. Children who lack their parents' company will always be hurt to their physical and mental growth over time. Children will think that their parents don't love him or even want him.
Dong Qing once said: When educating children, you choose to earn money instead of disciplining them. When your child grows up, you will earn hard money all your life, but you can't compete with him for a year.
Children grow up only once, and education cannot be repeated. Parents must do it themselves.
In fact, it is not so difficult for parents and children to study together.
Take 1 hour every day after work, choose a place with good light and read a book happily with your children. Over time, he will fall in love with reading and the deep parent-child time with you.
Pay attention to cultivating children's reading habits
Educator Suhomlinski once said: "The way to make students smarter is not to make up lessons or increase homework, but to read and read again."
For children, reading is an effective means to enrich knowledge and consolidate learning achievements.
The reform of college entrance examination once again proves that the present society is not an era of "learning mathematics and physics well and traveling around the world without fear", but "those who get Chinese get the world"!
As the number of questions increases, the number of words increases dramatically. Some children can't even finish reading the questions. How can we talk about all the papers? The China era has arrived!
If you want to learn Chinese well, you need accumulation, reading speed and comprehensive analysis ability, which can't be completed in a short time.
If children don't cultivate reading habits since childhood and don't have massive reading support, then children can easily miss high marks.
Primary school is the best time to study, so parents should cultivate their children's reading habits.
Through a lot of reading, children's wisdom will continue to grow, even if they don't go out, they will know what's going on in the world.
Through a lot of reading, increase children's extracurricular knowledge and social knowledge, and understand the local customs and the world.
Through a lot of reading, children's language expression ability, thinking ability and reading ability can be improved, and their writing ability will naturally be improved.
Dong Qing said: "I always believe that all the books I have read will not be read in vain. It will always help me to perform better in a future occasion. Reading can give people strength and happiness. "
Children develop good reading habits, and every book they read will come in handy in some future occasion.
Parents and friends are especially recommended to use Shu Yunhui's parent-child customized book list system to generate customized book lists for children through big data calculation according to their age and characteristics, which is more in line with children's reading habits and more conducive to their growth.
Develop good reading habits.
Sow an act and reap a habit; Sow a habit and reap a character; Sow a character and reap a destiny.
For children, good study habits determine their future success, because education is the cultivation of habits.
Good habits can benefit children for life. Fine comes from details, and details make success. "great things in the world must be done in details", and no matter how great the achievement, we must start from small things!
As parents, we should accompany our children to start from small things, develop good reading habits and benefit for life.
Of course, reading habits cannot be achieved overnight. Parents should be patient and stick to it, so that when their children grow up, their parents will have much more peace of mind.
Those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black. The level of parents determines the road under the children's feet and the height of the children. Therefore, good family education is a booster for a child's success.
Reading is the best family education I give my children!