This question is not easy to answer, and the answer is not necessarily the same. But I think it's heavy

The important issue is not to determine which view is correct, but to find out which view.

Which aspects should be stricter, which aspects should be wider, and what should be the balance between leniency and strictness?

Take it. Because now many parents have gone into a misunderstanding on this issue:

One day "strictness" and "width" are misplaced, and strictness is not strict, and width is not wide. children

Ideological and moral issues, personality development issues, related to the future.

Adults should not be underestimated, but some parents turn a blind eye and let it go.

For example, children make a hullabaloo about when some unreasonable demands are not met.

Words are not inferior, parents not only do not give education, but make amends; on the other hand

Things that are beneficial to children's physical and mental development, such as children wanting to watch more classes.

I am studying abroad, socializing with several children and trying to do something self-righteous.

In order to do things that may not be done well in practice, parents are harsh.

Let the child be silent-it means to reverse the position on "strictness" and "width" and call it

Don't be demanding, be generous.

The next day, both "strictness" and "leniency" went wrong. For example, the learning requirements for children are strict.

Yes, but some parents actually want their primary school children to do this every night.

You must do your homework for three hours, otherwise you can't sleep, let alone watch TV. Right 80

Examination results are regarded as "failing", ranging from reprimanding to beating and cursing.

This is not strict. Another example is that a child made a mistake and was criticized by the teacher.

It is not an exaggeration to give appropriate comfort, but at the same time, we should cooperate with teachers in education;

However, some parents keep excusing their children and even "anti-education".

On the other hand, it is biased to blame the teacher.

In real life, strict requirements and relaxed environment can make people.

Only. Examples of the former abound, and examples of the latter are not uncommon. For example,

When interviewing their parents and godson's successful experiences,

The answer is: "We basically ignore him, we learn by ourselves."

It seems that the key to combining leniency with severity lies in how to correctly grasp and use it, and it cannot be generalized.

On the other hand.

Family education is a science. Parents are not only the biological parents of children,

It is also the child's first and lifelong teacher. Whether the parents are clear or not

Realize that what parents actually say and do, including how to look at work, right?

Treat colleagues, fame and fortune, social and family life, etc.

Educating and influencing children in one way or another is all done in one way or another.

A life orientation. What kind of thoughts, outlook on life and values should be used to educate children?

Son, it is very important for the growth of children. Therefore, for children who are locked up early,

The problem of children's growth should not be taken lightly by parents as a trivial matter, but must be strictly emphasized.

Seek, teach by example, be reasonable, and don't make "learning crooked." Believe in the "big tree"

Natural straightness ",or putting the responsibility of education on schools and teachers, is mowing the grass."

Pulling the trigger is irresponsible to the country.

Family education is also an art, and good educational motivation alone may not be able to.

To achieve the expected results, we must respect the laws of education and pay attention to educational methods. teach

To raise children, we should not only pay attention to the direction of education (referring to the place where children work hard).

Children's personality characteristics, cognitive basis, endurance and conditional field should also be taken into account.

Pass, also can't underestimate the discretion of speaking. The so-called "strict requirements" and "strict requirements"

To have a "grid", not harsh and ruthless, follow one's inclinations; The so-called "tolerance", also

Not lenient, accommodating and appeasing. Too strict and too broad requirements will bring

Negative effects.

The knowledge of family education is really enough for us to learn!