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Parents set a "starting line" for their children too early. How does this help their children's education?
"Don't let your child lose at the starting line." This sentence has been rotten by countless training institutions, and it has indeed misled many parents. But what is the starting line for children? I've been thinking about this problem. Every child started running on the shoulders of his parents. Different parents have different heights, so the level of children's starting line is also different. This height includes: parents' knowledge, parents' family education level, the time of parent-child coexistence, parents' economic ability and so on.

In recent years, there have been more and more discussions about "it is difficult for poor families to have expensive children". The reason is that parents can't give their children more and better educational resources, nor can they give their children a bigger world and broader horizons. With the development of urbanization, the economic level of different regions is extremely unbalanced, and the gap between first-,second-,third-and fourth-tier cities is still huge. There are many small cities called "18th Line", not to mention rural areas and some remote places. Maybe children in Shanghai have Ferraris and Porsche in their basements, but children in rural areas have never seen sports cars. Children in Beijing can communicate fluently with foreigners in English when they are in primary school, but children in rural areas can't learn ABC until junior high school.

This is the gap, the huge gap brought by the accumulation of family and the ability of parents. The so-called "spelling dad" is what you spell. But don't get me wrong, this is not only an economic gap, but also a quality gap between parents. Friends shared some stories about communicating with children on their way to school. They discussed "thinking, speaking and acting", "competing in the same direction, fighting with wisdom and courage" and "knowledge, skills and attitude" ... Seeing these topics, I was ashamed and suddenly felt a huge gap. Maybe many parents, including myself, haven't thought about these issues carefully, but Liu Run has been discussing these issues with his children since he was a child. This is true for my children.

This is also the reason why I am working so hard now. I hope to know more about the world. Compared with the past, even if I stand on tiptoe, my children will have a higher starting line. This is also the reason why I am working so hard now. I hope to know more about the world. Compared with the past, even if I stand on tiptoe, my children will have a higher starting line.