I just watched a video interview and interviewed many parents about parenting. It is found that fathers and mothers have very different feelings about raising children. Dad looks relaxed, mom looks hard, and some people still have tears in their eyes. The same is true in real life. Mom talks a lot when she is tired, and dad is relatively relaxed and happy. Is it because men are more open-minded, or because women are more burdened?

Because when a mother becomes a mother, she will naturally feel uneasy. But dad is not like this. One day, I went to the shopping mall near my home for dinner. There is a parent and a two-year-old boy at the next table. The child is cute and has big eyes. I can't help watching it several times. The children are sitting in the baby chair. Mouth bulging, toy in hand, legs shaking. The food in front of my mother has hardly moved. She is feeding with tableware.

Dad, I don't think I saw it. After a while, when I tried to put the meatballs in my mouth, there was a thunderous roar from the side, and I was so scared that the meatballs rolled directly onto my clothes. "What do you eat XX? Hmm? I want to play when I eat every day. Why are you so disobedient? " The mother turned blue and threw away the tableware in front, making the child cry. "Go out if you don't eat!"

The mother's eyes stared at the child intensely, her chest fluctuated violently, and her mentality obviously collapsed. The little guy cried so hard that he almost smoked. Dad, I started cooking in the blink of an eye, and I seem to be used to it. Why does mom cry when it comes to raising children, and dad looks much more relaxed? Paradoxically, after 10 minutes, my mother collapsed and started breastfeeding again.

Actually, why bother? It doesn't matter if the child doesn't eat. The child's diet is unreasonable. Sometimes I have a good appetite, and sometimes I have a bad appetite. He insisted on eating, and all kinds of tricks were useless. What are you angry about such a small child? If I were a child, I might as well be hungry for a while instead of watching my mother get killed. In addition, why did the mother commit suicide when her father was cruel and blind?

The child knows. May feel uneasy. He will remember. Don't think he is small. No matter how you don't remember the plot, you can remember your feelings. All these negative emotions have become scars in his growing up, engraved on his character. Borrow a word from a friend and give it to all mothers. Being a mother is a lifelong lesson. It is really important to be worthy of children. Don't be too hard on yourself.