Second, concretization: Now I want to know, under what circumstances will children become grumpy? What kind of performance will it have?
Third, discuss the causes of the problem, and make a concrete analysis:
A child wants to get attention by being angry.
Solution: Recognize your child's feelings and try to communicate with your child. "You are really angry. You think it's okay to be angry, but can you tell me who you are angry with or what makes you angry? " Wait for the child's reaction and listen with interest instead of saying, "You shouldn't be angry." You can calm a child's anger by figuring out what he wants and helping him get it.
The child has a strong personality.
Solution: If the child is argumentative, try to let him say the last word, or hug them instead of refuting them. Ask the child what he thinks, not tell him what to do. Say to the child: "I don't want to care about you. Let's all calm down and find a way to solve this problem. "
C children can't control their emotions by themselves.
Solution: If the child is hurting others with aggressive behavior, let the child know that his parents have seen it, he may feel sad and angry because of something, but he can't hurt others. If the child is too young, take him away from the scene immediately and sit down with him to talk about the reason why he is angry. If the child is older, tell his parents that they love him. When he wants to talk, he can come to his parents at any time. If children need to sit down together to solve problems, parents should sit with them while they are discussing.
In the family, parents respond to their children with aggressive behavior.
Solution: avoid responding to your child's aggressive behavior with attacks, which will lead to power struggle and let your child see a role model that is contrary to your expectations. Also avoid making concessions to children's aggressive behavior, which will aggravate children's aggressive behavior.