1, specify specific housework: when children doodle and throw clothes and toys at home. Parents can prepare mops, clothes hangers, rags and brooms. Let children learn to clean up and develop neat habits. Similarly, if they destroy something, try to let them repair it themselves.
2. Confiscate the things that children love: The things that children throw can be confiscated as a punishment. At the same time, parents can temporarily put down their work and spend more time with their children. Let children feel concerned. Tell the children to stop worrying and put away the messy things, or they will be punished for Ta's mistakes.
3, regular penalty station, penalty sitting: set up a penalty spot at home, you can place markers, you can also take names. Position as close to the wall as possible, not facing the gate, so as not to hurt the child's self-esteem. Put a mat on the ground, prepare a clock or alarm clock, and limit the punishment time. After the punishment, let the child tell the reason why he was punished today.
4, palm: use newspapers or buy props as tools to palm. Put it in a fixed place for children to see. When punishing a child, let him say where he is wrong first; Remind the reason for punishment. But "fighting" is not the purpose. It is important that children can admit their mistakes and understand the truth.
5. Persuasion: When a child quarrels or has a dispute, ask the child the reason and listen to the child's thoughts patiently. Let children understand that beating, smashing and looting are incorrect behaviors and concepts. And ask children to learn to say "please, thank you, sorry". Don't use loud voice to suppress or threaten children, and avoid hurting children's self-esteem between words.
6. Refuse the request and postpone the realization of the wish: the things that children often eat and like are temporarily placed away from the children as punishment. Let the children know the reasons for prohibiting these rights, and then restore their rights after they behave well. Parents should keep their promises when they agree to their children's wishes. But if the child makes a mistake, the time will be postponed. Tell the child that this is caused by Ta's mistake.
The essence of education
1, superstructure theory holds that education is the superstructure of society. Reason: Education is a kind of ideological culture, and its nature and changes are determined by and serve the socio-economic foundation. Education is restricted by productivity, but it must be mediated by economic base.
2. Productivity theory. It is believed that education is productive force, education can produce labor force, and it is labor force reproduction; The development scale, speed, teaching content, means and form of education are restricted by productivity; Education is determined by relations of production, but all relations of production and superstructure are ultimately determined by productive forces.
3. Dual attribute theory. Education has both the attributes of productivity and superstructure.
4. Compound phenomenon theory. It is believed that the essence of education is "multi-quality", with the nature of superstructure and productivity, and has the functions of serving class struggle, developing economy, spreading culture and promoting human development.