Accompanying a child to grow up is a very difficult and long process, and there will be many problems in the process of growing up. They face not only physical growth, but also psychological changes day by day. Parents should be more careful in the process of education, pay attention to children's emotions, don't talk about children in excessive language, and pay attention to the ways and means of talking to children, otherwise it will only make children feel more and more inferior.

Don't compare

Parents can't always say "look after other people's children". Children also have self-esteem and need encouragement and comfort. If children who are not encouraged are like seedlings after a long drought, those children who are often hit instead of encouraged will only become thirsty grass.

Discover the bright spot of children

Don't always compare your children with other people's children. Every child has his own unique bright spot. Every child has his own advantages.

Don't hit the child.

Psychologist Cedez believes: "The blow can only make the child become a coward and an incompetent person. Of course, it is unwise to indulge children, but at least they can be set free. The blow is different. Extremely harmful. It can even destroy a child. "

Don't suppress children's curiosity.

Parents can't always say, "Why are you so stupid and don't know anything?" Nowadays, many parents hate children asking questions, and often think that children have poor understanding ability and should ask them repeatedly. This is a big mistake. This foolish practice will only suppress children's curiosity, thirst for knowledge and motivation unconsciously. More seriously, it obliterates the most precious spirit of seeking knowledge in children's hearts.