In fact, Xiong Haizi is found all over the world, and the key is how to educate and manage. Compared with China's emotional parenting, American rational parenting is really worth learning.

Establish rules

Establishing some "rules" for children from an early age will make the work with children get twice the result with half the effort in the future and achieve remarkable results.

To admire reward, the punishment, the treatment of clear understanding

Let children have principles, a bottom line and clear rewards and punishments from an early age. This is a very good family education, which has nothing to do with age, but it is a good channel to cultivate children's personal cultivation.

safety first

Solve the most important security problems and make other small aspects casual, so that adults will be more relaxed. This is an aspect of American parents' wisdom. However, over the years, China's parenting style has often put the cart before the horse in this respect. Fortunately, it has changed significantly in recent years.

Respect children's choice

Respecting children's choices and letting them bear the corresponding consequences, from forcing children to do something to taking the initiative, is really high.