Educate male baby
1. Should be poor and cultivate ability.
Since ancient times, there have been few handsome men, so it is necessary to cultivate the hard-working and hard-working style of male babies from an early age, as well as the thought of benevolence, righteousness and filial piety. We should restrict him materially, so that he can stand proudly and break out of his own sky in the future despite the harsh living environment and cruel social competition.
You should grow up in the wind and rain.
For male babies, we should give more frustration education. Men should constantly strive for self-improvement, and it didn't take long for them to experience failures and setbacks.
3. It is necessary to cultivate the strong, optimistic and responsible personality of male babies.
Baby boys need more independent space. When he was about 2 years old, he began to fight for independence. At this time, the parents of the baby boy should consciously create an appropriate space for his physical and mental independence.
Don't suppress his resistance, but observe, think and understand the psychological reasons and significance behind his resistance, and find a slow release and solution, otherwise it may hinder the development of his inner self.
In the game, the boy should be encouraged to be independent, and the game can be more intense and risky, which can cultivate his strong and optimistic quality.
Let the boy learn to bear the consequences from an early age, and when he grows up, he will naturally be responsible and become a responsible man.
4. Encourage boys to create.
Parents should not interfere with his creative activities and should not give him too much restrictions and protection. Instead, we should give him a broad space, a running ground and a collective atmosphere.
When he paints or builds blocks, give the boy as many opportunities as possible to develop his creativity, praise his works, encourage his whimsy and try not to deny his achievements.
No matter how difficult it is, the baby boy should be given a try first. Even if he finally gives up, it should be his own idea, not his parents' stop.
While letting go, we should repeatedly emphasize that parents will always be by his side and accompany him forever, so that he can have a full sense of security. This repeated emphasis should be reflected not only in behavior, but also in language.
Dad is a role model for boys and babies.
If you want to train a baby boy into a qualified little man, you must first be a man with indomitable spirit and be a father. It has been recognized that the prominent position of the father in the growth of a baby boy cannot be underestimated.
Example is more important than words. Every look, every word and every movement of dad will be captured by the baby.
Every male baby's father should realize that he is a copy of his son. If you want to "copy" amazing achievements, you must first describe yourself carefully.
If dad can have a strong body, be brave, protect the weak and respect women, then you must be a good example.
Educate female babies.
1. It should be rich and cultivate temperament.
She has always been rich and expensive, so the baby girl has to take her to various occasions since she was a child to broaden her horizons and increase her experience, thus greatly enhancing her knowledge. In this way, when you grow up, you will not be easily captured by the prosperity and vanity of all kinds of floating world. Because you are well-informed, you are not easily tempted by others.
2. Baby girls should grow up with gentle words.
Treat a baby girl with the gentlest heart, just like those delicate flowers, with meticulous elegance and no room for roughness. As parents, we need to understand the psychological needs of those little girls, including their petty actions and vanity. Mom should be her natural friend and comrade-in-arms
3. It is necessary to cultivate a female baby to be gentle and healthy and know how to love.
To cultivate a baby girl, it is important for her to have a healthy mind, a gentle and virtuous personality and a clean and healthy body.
Parents will naturally dote on their precious daughters, but they are not doting. Let her be knowledgeable, opinionated and wise, and clearly know what she wants and what she is really worth pursuing, so that she can stick to her beliefs instead of being influenced by external forces and losing her true self.
Parents should formulate some specific parenting methods according to the baby's behavioral advantages, and start with training the baby's physical coordination ability, sensory integration ability, concentration and temperament, so as to enhance a variety of superior intelligence and cultivate an elegant, intelligent and generous baby.
4. Pay attention to communication with the baby girl.
From infancy, female babies like to communicate harmoniously and get along with others freely. They don't like competition, they are just looking for a relationship, in which they pursue equal pay for equal work, and they are part of and responsible for this relationship.
Communication and communication are their ways to keep in touch, and it is their nature to long for intimate feelings such as love and friendship. Therefore, female babies are born celebrities.
Female babies get care, understanding, respect, loyalty, consideration and comfort through communication. Parents should learn to listen to the baby girl's "true intention" and let her decide her development direction according to her "internal guidance system" rather than other people's opinions.
5. The mother is a good teacher and friend of the baby girl.
As the saying goes, "a daughter is a mother's intimate little cotton-padded jacket" means that a baby girl is gentle and considerate and can connect with her mother. Mother-daughter relationship often looks closer than father-son relationship.
In fact, this intimate relationship is very beneficial to the growth of the baby girl-the intimate mother-daughter relationship gives the girl the experience of communication and exchange, which is conducive to the development of the baby girl's intimacy and sensibility and makes her feel more emotional support.
Who can do better than mother in meeting the psychological needs of female babies? It is the commonness with the mother that gives the baby girl an example to learn from and develop herself from it. If the mother is confident and decisive, the daughter will often have the same quality.
It is a mother's blessing to have a daughter, but it is her responsibility to bring her up.