Secret 1: believe
Infinitely believe in the potential of children's development
Every child is different. Parents should be good at discovering their children's bright spots and helping them become the best themselves.
Appreciation leads to success, and complaining leads to failure. If you want your children to do it, cherish every opportunity for their growth, appreciate their growth, and appreciate their words and deeds; If you can't have children, complain and blame them
The potential of children is always greater than everything that has been achieved. Modern scientific research has long proved that human potential is enormous.
Let us believe in the potential of children's development infinitely!
Tip 2: Habit
The success of education depends on having good habits.
Mr. Ye Shengtao said that education is to cultivate habits, and the success of education depends on whether good habits are cultivated. Sports is not about how high you jump, how fast you run and how well you play, but about whether you have developed good fitness habits.
There is an action called "one thing a month", which requires children to do one thing every month and cultivate good habits.
For example, learn to eat this month. Eating has many habits to cultivate, not only etiquette but also many things related to habits.
For example, if you learn to walk, you will have habits. Of course, there are many normative things behind habits. We say that not running a red light means obeying the rules, and obeying the rules is a habit.
Tip 3: companionship
No matter how busy parents are, they should try their best to accompany their children.
Parents and children eat together, talk together, and communicate and learn all the time.
Parents are talking about learning, and children may be interested in learning in the future; Parents are complaining, and children may also feel complaining. Many parents think it is meaningless to talk to their children more. In fact, what parents say, even if they don't understand it today, will become an important part of their brains.
More importantly, companionship and living together will determine whether the whole family has a common destiny.
Tip 4: Read
Make reading a way of life for children.
"You may have unlimited wealth, boxes of jewels and boxes of gold. But you will never be richer than me. I have a mother who reads to me. "
Reading is an important source for children to have a rich spiritual life. The cultivation of reading ability, reading interest and reading habits begins at home.
Children's books quietly hide the best things of human beings in the fate of human beings and animals, so as to construct children's values.