Speech at the Parents' Meeting (1) Dear parents,
Hello! First of all, on behalf of all the faculty and staff of our school, I would like to extend a warm welcome to all of you for taking time out of your busy schedule to attend the parent-teacher conference of our school. I sincerely thank you for your concern and support for education. At the same time, I also urge you to put forward valuable opinions on school management, construction, education and teaching.
I will mainly talk about two aspects in this parent-teacher conference:
First, briefly introduce the basic situation of our school and the achievements made in recent years.
Second, talk about some views on children's education that parents care about.
I. Basic information of the school
1. The educational principle of our school is "adults first, talents later", which lays the foundation for students' life. Based on this principle, the school has formulated various rules and regulations. Every rule and regulation is based on the principle of being highly responsible to students.
2. "Good habits are good lives." The school always pays unremitting attention to the cultivation education of students, and puts forward high standards and strict requirements for students in line with the principle of "adults first, talents later". Start with the little things in life and carry out standardized education for students. Through standardized education, students can truly become qualified social citizens who can survive, learn, cooperate, respect, love, pursue and have a sense of responsibility.
The achievements of our school in recent years. In recent years, under the correct leadership of the District Education Bureau and with the joint efforts of all teachers in our school, our school has made great progress in education and teaching, and the scores of the senior high school entrance examination and the proportion of people entering high school are among the best in the whole region. In particular, the number of people entering ordinary high schools is increasing. In sports, he won the first place in the total score of the district sports meeting for three consecutive years, and so on.
Secondly, let me focus on family education.
Under the new situation, the quality of our education and teaching is facing great challenges. At present, the problems among students are:
1. Weak sense of public morality, no gratitude, indifferent temperament, no understanding of parents' difficulties, no understanding of teachers' hard work, and no concern from relatives and teachers. Usually, they can't stand any grievances. Some contradict, insult and even beat their parents and teachers, while others leave home easily.
2. Tired of learning. The reasons for being tired of learning are very complicated, which have a lot to do with the bad influence of society and improper family education.
3. Internet addiction, indulging in the network. Computers, games, and the internet, children with strong curiosity and poor self-control are addicted to them, and addiction is hard to extricate themselves. For such students, such a phenomenon, the school's regular education is powerless!
The problems existing in family education are:
1, doting too much, everything is child-centered. Everything is arranged for the children.
2. Expectations are too high. Expect children to be the best among classmates.
3. Pay more attention to wisdom than morality. Parents who scored high in the exam smiled and gave various rewards; If you don't do well in the exam, you will be punished.
4. From disappointment to violence. Parents' violence against their children is mostly an excessive act of being spoiled and disappointed and hating iron to produce. Affect children's physical and mental health.
5. Pay too much attention. Entrust children to relatives, friends, teachers or grandparents, and entrust their educational responsibilities to others. This behavior has caused children's psychological defects and the lack of early education.
6, the width is different. Parents have different attitudes towards educating their children, and the standards of combining leniency with severity are different, which leads to one parent taking care of the other. Lack of unified requirements for children will inevitably have the effect of offsetting education. It seriously restricts the healthy development of children's body and mind.
Today, with the full implementation of quality education, family education, school education and social education are the three pillars of modern people's success, and family education is the foundation. At present, parents' awareness of the importance of family education has been generally improved, the conditions of family education have been obviously improved, and parents' awareness of participating in education and their consciousness and enthusiasm for learning family education knowledge have been greatly improved. Parents' sense of responsibility and mission for their children's education has been significantly enhanced. However, compared with the development requirements of the current education and teaching situation, our rural family education is still obviously lagging behind, and we still have too many things to do.
I will talk about my views from two core aspects of child training:
1, give children wisdom and love, not spoil.
What is doting? Spoiling is to satisfy children blindly regardless of whether their requirements are reasonable or not. The difference between intellectual love and doting is that intellectual love is comprehensive care, especially care for children's hearts; Spoiling is one-sided concern, only taking care of the child's superficial needs. So, what should we do?
First of all, we should teach children the skills of survival. Teaching children how to survive is the primary responsibility of parents. Someone once made a survey of more than 60 top candidates in the college entrance examination in 2002, and asked them questions during the survey.
The same: "What do your parents care about you most?" Everyone gets the same answer, but the answer is not "learning" but "being a man", which is the fundamental difference between successful education and unsuccessful education. "Life education is the soul of successful education. The parents of the top scholar have mastered the "outline" of educating people, and the outline is open to everyone. As long as they are a little better, other problems will be solved. "
It can be seen that caring should not only take care of children's material needs, but also take care of their spiritual growth. Spoilers can't see the latter, only on the surface, children love to eat ice cream and go to McDonald's and KFC. As a result, this connivance can only help children develop selfish and lazy bad habits.
2. Cultivate resources that children can develop.
(1) sense of responsibility, parents should always want their children to take responsibility, such as doing something wrong, letting him be punished, doing housework at home and so on.
Know how to respect others and let children learn to care, such as respecting their parents, honoring the elderly, speaking politely and so on. This is a good lesson that parents must give their children. You need people who know how to care about others, not selfish people. People who take me as the center are good for your career development. )
③ Good education. American writer Henry? James said that there are three most important things in life, the first is kindness, the second is kindness, and the third is kindness. Compassion and love are important factors to help you succeed in life.
④ Abide by rules, sense of rules and sense of order. There are no rules, Fiona Fang. Regardless of family, society, collective and sense of rules, it is the embodiment of a person's basic quality. With rules, we can be respected and welcomed. With rules, we can share the joy of life.
⑤ Thanksgiving education. It is not easy to cherish and understand parents. Parents should tell their children the hard work of making money, teach students to cherish the existing learning and living environment, and teach students to be grateful.
6. Make reading a lifelong habit for children. The knowledge learned at school is limited. Cultivating students' strong interest in learning and good reading habits is an inexhaustible source of a person's life.
Dear parents and friends, the purpose of family education and school education is the same, and they all hope to train their children into adults. Then, let's show respect and understanding for children and schools. Only with respect and understanding can schools act according to the teaching rules and children have the motivation to learn. I sincerely hope that parents will follow the laws of education, participate in school education and teaching, and become participants, supporters and allies in school education. Let our families and schools work together to create a warm, healthy and positive learning atmosphere for students, so that students can really grow up healthily. Finally, I would like to make some suggestions and requirements for parents:
1, contact frequently, not only with the class teacher, but also with the class teacher.
2. Look at the results of this mid-term exam correctly. If your grades are not good, don't just blame them, but analyze the reasons.
3. Respect the teacher, and the attitude of parents should be consistent with the teacher. Trust teachers to educate children. Teachers don't criticize students for no reason. The purpose of criticism is to help students correct their shortcomings. Therefore, parents should correctly guide students to treat teachers' criticism. Trust your teacher and his methods.
4. You are not allowed to bring your mobile phone. What do many students do with their mobile phones? Do you know that?/You know what? Bad information such as surfing the Internet and watching pornographic websites is not alarmist. Some children often send short messages to students of the opposite sex, and have a tendency of puppy love, so the disadvantages far outweigh the benefits. Therefore, according to the regulations of our school, mobile phones are not allowed to be brought into the campus.
The school stipulates that students must wear school uniforms at school, which is a sign of student identity and is conducive to the healthy growth of students.
Since March this year, our school has been running in accordance with the regulations of provinces and cities. Students' concentrated study time at school is no more than 7 hours, and their extracurricular time is greatly increased. Parents are requested to monitor and manage their children's study time at home to ensure the improvement of learning efficiency. The key to children's grades lies in whether they have good study habits.
7. Safety, (1) Parents must educate their children to get to school on time. Leave school on time. The afternoon is 4: 15. After school, if students don't come home in time, parents should call the school in time to ask. Therefore, we sincerely ask parents to guide their children to calculate the time to come to school. The reason why the school keeps the time so accurate is to strengthen management and try to avoid all possible accidents. So please support your parents and friends.
(2) Traffic, every day when children go to school, parents must remind their children to pay attention to traffic safety. The school does not organize vehicles to pick up students, and there is no so-called "school bus". But the school has always paid attention to reminding parents and students to pay attention to safety. Parents should never let their children ride in irregular vehicles or non-operating vehicles, which is really unsafe. The rented vehicle must have complete three certificates, driver's license, operation license and insurance certificate, and sign a contract with the owner. Through these, the safety of students can be effectively guaranteed.
I firmly believe that with your cooperation, your children will grow up healthily with these dedicated, dedicated, energetic, caring, patient and enterprising teachers. Let all teachers and students work together with you for the bright future of students.
Finally, I wish all parents a happy life and a smooth career!
Thank you again for coming!
Speech at the Parents' Meeting (II) Hello, I'm Yan. Thanks to my uncles and aunts for coming to the parent-teacher conference. I am also honored to be here to discuss my learning experience with you.
I have read a lot of books, and I can say without modesty that there are not many books at home, but there are many. But the reason why I can read so many books is because my mother has good intentions.
In fact, when I was young, I didn't like reading very much. I always pester my mother to read to me and tell stories. So that Pinocchio, the first book my mother asked me to read, stood in the corner of the room for a long time. Then how did I like reading? It's kind of funny to say. The first book I read was called The Mystery of Space. The night I borrowed it from the library, I pestered my mother to watch it. But at that time, I was already a senior one, and I had to teach myself. So my mother deliberately read "alas! Wow! " . As a result, I was very angry I grabbed the book and spelled it word by word with unfamiliar pinyin. It took me a week to finish reading this book. Since then, I have developed the habit of loving reading.
My mother has never set or restricted my reading range. As long as it is useful for learning, even comics are all three words: buy in! In my opinion, students of our age can read Chinese classics such as The Analects of Confucius, Mencius, Daxue and The Doctrine of the Mean, but don't let them learn by rote. Because China's culture is profound, there are some things that we need to understand by ourselves, and it is not enough to recite them. Just like doing a math problem, you can't just remember the pattern of the problem. Only when we really master the solution of this problem can we really know. And if you only rely on rote memorization, you will have rebellious psychology. The more you back, the more annoying you get. This vicious circle may even lead to the rigidity of parent-child relationship. If that's true, you might as well not read it. Only when he is immersed in those philosophical words can he read the most.
As for my learning experience, I think there is actually only one way: listen carefully and then listen carefully. The essence of learning is to acquire knowledge, and the premise of acquiring knowledge is to listen carefully. You don't even know what the teacher said, how can you get knowledge from it? Moreover, it is also a major point to finish homework carefully. What we have learned is only abstract in our minds. Only by carefully completing homework can the knowledge in the mind be "three-dimensional" and truly learned.
In fact, my spare time life is also colorful, but it is actually a bit annoying. I signed up for six courses: Mathematics, Calligraphy, Piano, Basketball, Vocal Music and English. Oh, by the way, I write three blog posts every week. In these six classes, except vocal music, everyone needs to practice regularly. Every day after lunch, I will practice writing for a while, then I will write a quiz on math and English homework, and then I will practice one. In the afternoon, I usually go to the music store at 5: 40, go home after practicing at 6: 40, and start doing my homework at 7: 00. I usually do my homework until eight o'clock and then eat for half an hour. After that, if you are interested, go with your mother to pick up your younger brother from junior high school. If you are not interested, write a blog at home. When mom came back, it was about nine o'clock. Then we go downstairs and run for half an hour to forty minutes. When we got home, we went to bed after washing at about ten o'clock. Although my life is very tense, I am full and happy!
Well, my experience is over. Thank you.