Girls are generally confused in life. When they go to a strange place, they will get lost in a short time. The most important thing is that they can't read the map. Every time a girl goes to a strange place, boys worry. What should they do if they get lost? So boys will teach girls to read maps, and many girls don't want to learn.
If you want boys not to teach you, you have to show them how good you are. You should tell each other by actions, especially when you are alone. In this way, boys won't teach you in the future, just occasionally get confused in life and give each other a chance to get into trouble, otherwise they won't meet, and after a long time, they will become strangers.
Besides, one person will not change because of what another person says. Only those who have really experienced it will know. If you get lost twice, you will know how to study the map and how to read it.