Fathers play an important role in the growth of children. He can help children to establish a clearer sense of gender, teach them the qualities of courage and integrity, and improve their interpersonal skills.

The absence of a father may lead to children's insecurity, introversion, unclear understanding of gender, and even inferiority, thus hindering children's interpersonal communication and making children's mental health not guaranteed.

2, like to belittle children

The quickest way to destroy a child is to destroy ta's self-confidence and self-esteem. As an adult, the father's ability will definitely be stronger than that of his children. If he belittles children everywhere because they can't meet their own requirements, thinking that children don't know this and that, it will make children have the mentality of "I'm really bad" and lead to learned helplessness's behavior. He will want to give up at the first time when he meets something, and it is difficult to achieve great things.

3. Emotional instability

Parents' attitude towards their children determines their attitude towards themselves and others in the future. If the father's mood is unstable, sometimes enthusiastic, sometimes furious, then the world is unstable and insecure for children. Ta can't believe that most people in this world think that most people are as fickle as their fathers, so they may shrink back and stop in the process of interpersonal communication.

Step 4 be dishonest

If you can't build children's trust in yourself, then education is out of the question. A father who can't keep his promise will set a bad example to his children and let them know that if he breaks his promise, he will not be punished or scolded, and he will not have to bear the consequences. Ta will be a man who breaks his word. Moreover, the father's prestige has become lower and lower in repeated gaffes, and the education of children will become more and more difficult, making the parent-child relationship more and more indifferent.

5. Too much management

If the father cares too much and helps the child do everything, hoping that the child will grow up completely according to his own ideas, the child will lose the ability to take care of himself, have no opinion, look at his father's eyes and have no courage to take the initiative to explore everything. When children grow up to adolescence, they will have rebellious emotions because they are too tight, but they will be suppressed by the pressure of their fathers, or they will explode or continue to accumulate in their hearts, leading to mental illness.

6. disrespect for your wife

The core of family relationship is actually the relationship between husband and wife, which many parents will ignore after having children. A good relationship between husband and wife can create a warm family atmosphere for children and give them a full sense of security. Children can also learn ta's initial interpersonal communication model from their parents' good interaction model and establish good interpersonal relationships.

If the father doesn't respect his wife enough, always bossing around at home, or even treating his wife rudely, the child may learn this attitude towards feelings from his father, learn not to love, and cannot enter a healthy intimate relationship.

7. Bad living habits

Bandura's social learning theory holds that children will imitate and learn their habits by observing their parents' behavior. If the child sees his father smoking and drinking, the child is likely to learn to smoke and drink, which will damage his health. After smoking addiction,