In daily life, parents should gradually guide their children to get rid of their dependence on parents and teachers and develop good living habits and behavior norms. Daily routine should be regular. Get up in the morning, get dressed, brush your teeth, wash your face, have breakfast, go to kindergarten and a series of combined actions. Should be done independently. In the evening, you should go home to watch TV in moderation, consciously go to bed on time, and cultivate your child's self-control ability. During this period, we should gradually infiltrate politeness education and learn the basic skills of "polite language" in dealing with people. At this time, it is of great benefit to cultivate children's social skills. Because primary school has a class of 35-40 minutes, try not to urinate in the middle, so pay attention to children's personal hygiene habits. It is also very important to ensure children's adequate sleep time, which can reverse their nap habits as soon as possible, let children know a series of daily life knowledge such as transportation, and strengthen their awareness of self-protection.

Secondly, cultivate children's interest in learning. Parents should always instill some natural science knowledge into their children and help them learn some basic knowledge, such as counting and literacy. Try to cultivate their interest in the surrounding things, guide them to observe the surrounding things purposefully, and connect the acquired knowledge with the surrounding things. You can often take your children to parks, suburban fields, mountains and rivers and other nature, increase their curiosity, and further cultivate their independent thinking ability to adapt to the needs and competition of society.

Third, strengthen physical exercise. Children's wrists and phalanges are growing, and the accuracy of finger movements is poor. While teaching children to learn to write, draw and do manual work, we should prevent excessive fatigue, avoid too long time and too much activity, pay attention to the collocation of various nutrients for children, and gradually strengthen physical strength and activity skills to ensure their physical and mental health and normal study.

From kindergarten to primary school, a long study career is about to begin. I hope every child can become a talent.

First, parents should have "three taboos"

(1) Avoid over-protection. Nowadays, children are all only children, holding them in their hands, sticking them to their chests and holding them in their mouths, and doing everything (carrying schoolbags and holding cups). Some parents do everything for their children, even reluctant to let them do what they can, or even limit their children's activities to their own sight. We should let the children know that they have grown up and are primary school students. Their life and study can't depend entirely on their parents and teachers. They can do their own things and find their own ways to solve problems and difficulties. Take part in some hard work, learn some simple labor skills, know how to open and close doors and windows, sweep the floor, clean tables and chairs, etc. Cultivate children's self-care ability, gradually reduce the care of parents or other adults, and gradually cultivate children's ability to live independently. Excessive protection will seriously interfere with the normal development of children's body and mind, leading to children's lack of independent living ability, social difficulties and lack of self-confidence.

(2) Avoid overindulgence. Nowadays, children are all little emperors and princesses at home. Parents sometimes know that they are unreasonable, but they can't stand their children crying and have a soft heart, so they can only rely on him for everything, which leads to the phenomenon that children are self-centered and grow up in abnormal environments. However, after entering school, they are constrained and pressured. Maybe their children will encounter some setbacks and criticisms in the process of growing up. As parents, they should let their children's unreasonable behavior be criticized.

(3) Avoid excessive expectations. Parents want their children to succeed, and they all want their children to take the first place in everything. Their wishes are good, but they are not as good as kindergartens. The study burden of kindergarten is definitely different from that of grade one. It is impossible to score 100 in the next exam. I think it is enough for children to work hard. At this stage, the key is to cultivate their good study habits.

Second, parents should pay attention to the "five"

(1) Pay attention to children's etiquette education: respect elders and parents at home (say hello when coming and going); Get into the habit of saying hello when meeting teachers and classmates. Let our children love their parents, their schools and teachers. I suggest that parents can tell their children the truth in Disciples Rules.

(2) Pay attention to children's gregarious education: Sometimes some unpleasant things will happen between small partners, such as collision and injury, you hit me between children, I recruit you, and take your favorite items. As a parent, you must never haggle over trifles. After all, children are children. They have their own ideas and principles and their own methods to solve problems. When you feel that your child is bullied and angry, the two children are good friends again. Therefore, as parents, we should play a guiding role.

(3) Pay attention to children's collective activities: we should support children to actively participate in various activities organized by schools and cultivate children's sense of collective honor and enterprise. Actively support and encourage children to participate in social practice. Let them temper their will in various public welfare activities such as schools and society, cultivate their sentiments, eliminate their "self" consciousness, consciously integrate into society, and cultivate the will quality of "I am for everyone" from an early age.

(4) Pay attention to children's habit of strictly observing the schedule: what children often feel uncomfortable after school is the schedule. Parents should consciously cultivate their children's good work and rest habits according to school requirements and seasonal changes. Parents can arrange a family study and life schedule for their children, explain the importance of getting up on time in the morning and falling asleep on time at night, and ask their children to do it. In this way, children can not only get enough sleep, but also have time to eat breakfast, not be late for school and be energetic in learning.

(5) Pay attention to the education of children's awareness of self-protection and safety: tell children that recess games and lunch breaks should be civilized and safe; Let's go together after school. Don't answer strangers casually. Be careful when crossing the road. Parents are late to pick up their children. Tell them not to run around and wait at the school gate.

Third, parents should pay attention to their own behavior.

Children trust their parents most. Parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on their children. If parents point their educational goals at their children, but their behaviors are contrary to or completely inconsistent with the educational goals, such education will not only fail to achieve the expected goals, but also cast a bad character on the children.

(1) Pay attention to dressing neatly when coming to school;

(2) Don't smoke or throw cigarette butts after entering school; Don't litter.

(3) Don't wear vest and slippers to school;

(4) Don't talk and evaluate the teacher behind his back, but interview.

This can be said to be the basic embodiment of parents' cultivation and quality. Parents' evaluation of teachers will affect the prestige of teachers in children's minds and the educational effect of teachers. Children's disrespect for teachers will lead to the failure of teacher education.

I remember a very good saying: "All for children, all for children, all for children"! I think our parents and teachers have the same goal at this point. Let's work together for the bright future of our children!

Family rainbow

I can give you life, but I can't live for you

I can teach you many things, but I can't force you to study.

I can teach you how to be a man, but I can't be responsible for all your actions.

I can tell you right or wrong, but I can't make a choice for you.

I can give you deep love, but I can't force you to accept it all.

I can teach you to share joys and sorrows with your relatives and friends, but I can't force you to do so.

I can teach you how to respect others, but I can't guarantee that you will be respected.

I can tell you what a sincere friendship is, but I can't choose friends for you.

I can educate you about sex, but I can't guarantee your purity.

I can tell you the true meaning of life, but I can't win you fame.

I can remind you that alcohol is dangerous, but I can't say no to it instead of you.

I can tell you about the dangers of drugs, but I can't guarantee that you will stay away from drugs.

I can tell you that you must set lofty goals for your life, but I can't achieve them for you.

I can teach you the good qualities of being a man, but I can't guarantee that you will become a kind person.

I can blame your fault, but I can't guarantee that you will become a moral person because of it.

I can tell you how to live more meaningfully, but I can't give you eternal life.

I'm sure I'll give you the best thing I can, but I can't give you the future and career.

Son, I can do a lot for you because I love you; However, you have to understand that even if I want to be with you forever, you have to make those important decisions yourself. Therefore, I just want the bright sunshine to illuminate your life forever and let you make the right decision forever.