To borrow Lu Xun's words, there are only two ways for middle-class families in China to educate their children. This paper will discuss these two wrong ways of family education in depth to help parents better understand how to guide their children correctly.

Abusive parents

One is to make it domineering and ignore it at all. It's okay to call names and hit people. Inside or in front of the door, there is a tyrant and a bully, but outside the door, like a spider that has lost its net, it suddenly loses its ability.

Indifferent parents

The second is to give him a cold shoulder or reprimand all day, which is worse than beating, making him cringe, like a slave and a puppet. However, his parents call them "obedient" and think they are the success of education. When they come outside, they will never fly or jump, just like a bird leaving the cage for a while.

The misleading of parents.

As for why they are worthless or even depressed, I think parents stifle their children's nature and increase their mental stress. If the guidance is not good, it is easy to get depression.