1. Parents don't have to make unenforceable service promises to their children. Once a promise is made, it must be kept unchanged. Parents who can't guarantee that their words and deeds are consistent can never establish prestige and authority in front of their children, and even the most important beliefs between parents and children will be affected.

2. Don't make children feel strange. The loneliness and strangeness suffered by children in childhood will do great harm to their temper and development direction. Therefore, no matter how busy parents are at work, they can't avoid their children for a long time, and they should always regard their children as the core of their daily lives.

It is taboo for couples to quarrel in front of children. There will inevitably be some corners of the mouth between husband and wife, but remember not to quarrel in front of the children. Seeing parents "bared their teeth" and abusing each other, children will have deep irritability and fear, which will eventually cause great harm to children and leave obvious psychological trauma to them.

4. Let children learn their own things and solve them by themselves. Some parents don't like their children's hands and feet, and will help them solve all affairs management; The other will wait for the child to do everything by himself, even if it is extremely boring. It is said that diligence can make up for mistakes. In the whole process of trial and error, the child will grasp the key point of solving things alone. Crucially, they can gain confidence from it and experience the joy of success, which is hard to find in Beloved.

You don't have to feel guilty about your children because of your work. You don't have to feel guilty about your children because you are a working person. You can't forget, regret or feel guilty just because you are a little careless about your child's problems. This just gives your children a lot of excuses to be angry with you. In other words, it will be given to your children according to your space.

6. The same command tone will affect the child's mood. Neither parents nor children like being bullied or pointed at. Therefore, when preparing to cooperate with children or expecting children to solve something, remember to persuade them gently, rather than giving orders in a tough tone. It is best to give them appropriate tips or suggestions immediately, so that children can take the initiative to solve them.

7. You don't have to force your children to study. Mothers should not force their children to study blindly. Instead, they must first grasp what their children are interested in, and it is best to take them into related industries to feel, and then of course, they must correctly guide their children to drive and recognize the training. Precautionary measures: Forcing children to study is likely to cause children to rebel against their parents, lose interest in learning and training, and lose big because of small.