Avoid tough orders
Some parents are just superficial democracy, but in fact they are tough orders. This practice is hotly debated in Zhihu, but it often backfires. Parents should avoid ordering their children frequently and try to communicate in a consultative tone.
Give children more choices.
Give children more choices and make them feel respected. Before asking your child, consider two acceptable ways and let the child decide for himself. For example, ask the child if he wants noodles or rice. If the child gives the third answer, tell him clearly that he is not in the choice range, which can not only guide the child, but also make him feel respected.
Give the child some time to prepare.
Give children some time to prepare and give them room to react. For example, remind children that there are still 5 minutes before going out, so that they can sort out what they need; It is also necessary to inform in advance before eating, so that children have time to pack their toys.
Spend more time with your children.
Let more people participate in the process of children's growth, not only mothers, but also fathers should accompany their children, play with them and communicate with them. Dad can let the children learn a lot through the correct demonstration without being reasonable.
Put down your cell phone and spend more time with your children.
In the face of rebellious children, parents need not be too anxious. Children rebel only to get more respect and care. Put down your mobile phone, spend more time with your children and let them feel the warmth and support of home.