1. Combine tolerance with strict requirements to cultivate children's sense of responsibility.

Strict requirements play an important role in promoting children's healthy growth, making children develop according to the ideal model of adults and avoiding detours, but the negative impact on "strict requirements" cannot be ignored. It makes children accustomed to acceptance, unable to think critically, losing their individuality and weak sense of innovation, and even some children are depressed, withdrawn and lose their innocence prematurely.

2. Parents need to adjust their mentality.

It is normal for children to express their desires in adolescence, and because 18-year-old children are already adults in the legal line, they feel that they have their own judgment ability and do not need the guidance of their parents. At this time, parents should not be angry about it, but sincerely congratulate their children on their growth.

3. Help children understand their abilities.

. Facts show that self-confidence is a prerequisite for success. When children enter adolescence, they need not only material encouragement from their parents, but also spiritual encouragement from their parents. Parents' proper use of appreciation education can help children build up their self-confidence and make them face up to their ability in appreciation and appreciation.

Parents should first allow their children to have their own opinions.

Let go of the child's path slowly and let him go by himself. As long as he does not violate the law and discipline and does not endanger others and society. In addition to caring for and helping him, try to preach as little as possible and don't try to impose his parents' views and opinions on him.

Parents should be close friends of their children and pay attention to their psychological development.

Some problems should be subtly passed on to children in the usual small talk, instead of waiting until the problems are discovered before adopting rude and arbitrary education methods. The student period is the golden age of long body and long knowledge. Although the children in this period have grown up and looked like adults, their hearts are not fully mature, and everyone's future development is unknown. At this time, it is easy to fall in love, which will not only affect your studies, but also cast a shadow over your future love life.

6. Listen patiently and respect your child's reasoning.

Listening patiently is a good way to solve contradictions. Many children are rebellious because their parents don't understand themselves. They just like to discipline themselves and don't listen to their parents' opinions. As children grow up, they begin to have their own ideas and self-esteem. Parents should put down their parents' airs, don't talk to their children in a condescending tone, blindly impose preaching, respect their children, respect their ideas, reason with their children, and educate their children with the right or wrong of reason, instead of deciding the right or wrong of things with their own identity.

7. Tell your children more about your emotional feelings.

Another characteristic of boys' personality is their poor empathy. The parents here jumped over the wall and the children there stood still. Therefore, parents can tell their children what their emotional feelings are and why they are angry after doing such a thing. Let the children enter the emotional situation of their parents, let the children truly realize their mistakes and have the intention of repentance.