Moreover, working hard to achieve better value is something that has never been incorporated into life. People's values are completely the expression of acquired social attributes. It is human instinct to eat and drink enough, contribute less and be lazy more, and find a place to lie down and bask in the sun.
Therefore, from my rude mother's point of view, in the process of parenting, the most important thing is definitely not the praise and encouragement that is slammed down like a storm, nor the patient companionship that is always whispered. The most important thing in parenting is to make rules, be transparent and fair, and have clear rewards and punishments.
Mencius said three thousand years ago: Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang.