1, pay attention to the power of example, and parents should set an example in front of their children; 2. Cultivate children's love and filial piety and pass positive energy to children; 3. Use encouragement instead of scolding. Family is the second class for children, so the guidance of parents is particularly important for children's growth. In the family, we should not put education first, but should pay more attention to the sound development of children's personality.

1, pay attention to the power of example

Children have a strong ability to imitate and observe. They will observe their parents' words and deeds, keep their parents' words and deeds in mind and imitate them deliberately. Therefore, in front of children, parents should maintain a positive image and set an example, so as to subtly tell children some principles of dealing with people.

2. Cultivate children's love and filial piety.

Children's minds are more sensitive and delicate, and in children's eyes, the world is beautiful. As parents, we should convey positive energy in the process of children's growth, educate children to care about others, love the world, honor their elders and parents, and respect teachers. These are the basic principles of being a man.

Step 3 replace scolding with encouragement

Children have delicate minds. In their eyes, parents are the closest people, so children will pay special attention to their parents' evaluation of themselves. If we scold our children more than encourage them in our daily life, we are likely to deny our ability and become timid and inferior because of these scoldings. Giving children more positive psychological hints and encouragement can make them face problems more actively. These are all good ways to give children a positive guidance.