2. Communicate with children more. Most disobedient children lack family communication. Because parents are busy with work and neglect their children's lives, it will lead to children's rebellion. Parents are advised to spend more time with their children and communicate psychologically during play, which will help ease the parent-child relationship.
3. Be patient. Many parents are easily excited when their children are disobedient, and even make a hullabaloo about. It is also wrong to treat their children like this. Parents should be patient enough to sit down with their children and talk about what they want them to do. If necessary, they can ask their children about their own shortcomings and correct them in time.
4. Treat children's learning correctly. Learning should not be a burden to children, and parents don't need to turn their children into learning tools. Eleven-year-old children are rebellious, and the differentiation of grades has begun to be obvious at this time. For children with poor academic performance, parents will lightly reprimand and scold them, but many experiences show that the more parents force the education of eleven-year-old children, the worse their grades will be. Parents want their children to do well in school, but also for their children to have a good future. Therefore, if parents tell their children what they really think, they may achieve different results.
Don't just pay attention to children's learning. Academic performance is not everything to children! Personality, disposition, quality and other aspects are very important for children's growth. Don't just pay attention to children's academic performance and ignore their inner changes. It is more important to cultivate a child with three views than to cultivate an examination machine.