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What are the misunderstandings of parents who do not interfere with their children's growth in education?
All parents or people who want to be parents can't help reading this article! Very enlightening and thought-provoking

From a small point of view, for the healthy growth of children, from a big point of view, for the future of the motherland!

Level one. In the quiet gestation period of life, PK disorderly prenatal education affects fetal development and prepares for dystocia.

After pregnancy, prospective parents began to "prenatal education". I don't know who first proposed that prenatal education can improve children's intelligence. This is all fantasy. Fetal growth has its own operating mechanism. We still have no idea how life is formed, unless we can synthesize life with elementary particles, but we still don't know how many elementary particles there are.

Young parents-to-be listened to the words of some inspection experts and made noise with tape recorders, which affected the normal development of the fetus and turned it into' fetal screaming'. Traditional Chinese medicine theory:' Yang transforming qi and Yin forming', the gestation of the fetus needs a quiet environment, otherwise the noisy fetus will develop abnormally and become' fetal harm'. The simplest analogy is that raw bean sprouts should be kept in a quiet, dark and humid environment. You see, the birth rate of children with congenital physical defects is very high now. Of course, this has a lot to do with environmental pollution and drug abuse, but these can be avoided.

In addition, pregnant women eat too much and don't exercise enough, which leads to the fetus being too big and not ready for dystocia. Originally, doctors lied to those who could not give birth naturally. As a result, the lie became the truth.

Correct prenatal education has existed since ancient times. At the very least, we should be abstinent, cultivate one's morality and be happy physically and mentally. Those who let the fetus learn foreign languages, learn scientific theories and listen to loud music are simply confused! If you can't do it, you might as well not do it.

Level two. 1-3 years old during feeding and immune system establishment, PK randomly injected drugs to destroy hearing and immune system establishment.

Babies should be breastfed for about a year. Mothers shorten breastfeeding time for work, foolishly thinking that long breastfeeding time will affect their bodies. During this period, they also abused drugs. The short breastfeeding period also laid the groundwork for them to suffer from breast diseases in the future.

Children often have a fever for a short time when they are growing up. This is not our adult's cold and fever. Folk Chinese medicine calls it' eighteen steaming' (of course, the number of times and the degree of high fever are different), which belongs to normal growth fever. Our' parents' don't believe in thousands of years of parenting experience (don't listen to the old people), but listen to the' scientific method' written by exam experts who have never raised children. As soon as the child feels feverish, he will go to the hospital for injection and infusion for whatever reason. Immediately, some children have hearing loss due to more injections, and there are more hidden physical hazards of injections that erupt again in adulthood, which provides a guarantee for the expansion of the hospital.

To improve the immune system, it is necessary to lay the floor. Playing with dirty things is a child's nature and can be exposed to all kinds of bacteria. Parents love' cleanliness' so much that they don't want to play dirty when they hit their children.

What about the evidence? Children in rural areas play on the ground every day, and most of them have stronger disease resistance than children in cities when they grow up. At this stage, children should sleep no less than 12 hours a day.

Some children's language talents mature ahead of time. They appear on the TV "baby show", and their parents are happy and their colleagues and neighbors are envious, which is equivalent to letting their "energy" shine ahead of time.

Level three. Playing at the age of 3-7 is a' primary school' kindergarten during the development of limbs and hands. Early education destroys the formation of imagination and makes limbs uncoordinated.

This age is the period when children begin to get in touch with nature, so they should play in nature more. Traditional Chinese medicine should develop in playing activities and strengthen the coordination between hands, feet and body. "You must study in advance to be competitive in the future", but "parents" think so. In order to cater to these "parents and mothers", kindergartens now begin to teach all kinds of adult knowledge, calling learning piano, music and art "quality education".

Children who play in the natural environment have strong physical coordination and flexibility, while children who grow up playing with high-tech toys and equipment have much worse physical coordination, which is too obvious.

American mothers took the kindergarten that taught their children to read to court, because the kindergarten killed their children's imagination and won the case; China's mother spent huge sums of money to send her children to a' primary kindergarten' (prison), which harmed her children. This is the real loss at the starting line! Learning knowledge in advance is called' rushing to run', and it is easy to be eliminated by society in the future!

At this stage, the child's sleep time every day is not less than 10 hour. In order to let the children grow up, a lot of calcium should be added to make the bones close ahead of time and stop growing. Low bone density, calcification has become a' white' child's head, only the size of an adult's fist, the so-called fist face. Originally, the old man told me that more activities, more sunshine and more sleep were the magic weapons for growing up, but' parents' didn't believe me and became superstitious! Even give children' detoxification' drugs (originally for people who eat heavy metals by mistake), and torture them to a bone. You are too poisonous!

Don't let the children lose at the starting line',' All for the children',' Buy a * * house, get a * * hukou, and realize the children's dream of a key university' have all become killers of real estate developers, and parents and children have become ghosts under the knife! To finish the long road of life at the speed of 100 meters sprint is to harm your children!

Level four. Primary schools aged 8- 14 have a superficial understanding of the body and viscera (stomach, intestine, gallbladder, bladder, etc.). ). During the redevelopment period, PK went to extra-curricular cram schools and music and art' quality classes' to occupy the time of physical development.

There are few classes in primary schools, and' parents' don't want to let their children be physically and mentally idle, so they go to various' training classes'. For example, in the Olympic math class, most of them learn the knowledge of senior grades in advance, and most children don't like it, which is useless at all.

Foreign language classes are the most popular and foreigners are very happy. Think with our language and culture, and you will always imitate behind us. These harmful lessons include: Olympic Games, English, Go and western adult competitive sports.

Primary school is an age of innocence. Traditional game activities are not limited by venues and equipment. According to local conditions, it is simple and fun, and beneficial to the body and mind. Because it doesn't cost money, it is attacked by our merchants and foreign sports merchants. We adults are embarrassed to let our children play those local games.

There is nothing but study. Originally, learning is the combination of "learning" and "learning". Now it is "learning" to middle school, and there is no time for "learning" at all.

Primary school is a time to cultivate courage. Knowledge without courage is just a tool, and finally it becomes a' tool keeper'.

All kinds of food obtained by viscera must be digested, decomposed and reprocessed, and the essence of food can be extracted before they can grow up. At this time, children often feel underfed. If you don't have enough activities and generate less heat when you study, the yang will be insufficient, that is, food can't be broken down into small material units that can be absorbed by the human body at high temperature (Chinese medicine calls it qi, and pseudo-scientists criticize Chinese medicine for describing the concept of qi as gas), which lays the foundation for future gastrointestinal diseases.

When you buy a new computer, you need to install application software. Just like students studying,' parents' blindly think that you need to install more software (in fact, it will never be finished). Finally, it is slow to start and run, and it will' collapse' when it is anxious, just like taking various certificates and attending various cram schools. The more you learn, the more restricted your thoughts will be, and the worse your independence, self-reliance and living ability will be. "It is better to practice a thousand tricks than one trick" is a summary of thousands of years, and we don't recognize it.

Level five. 14- 17-year-old junior high school students have wide brain holes. In the re-development period of five zang-organs (heart, heart, lung, spleen and kidney), PK consumes nutrients into the brain with high-intensity study, which harms the development of five zang-organs of students.

To be admitted to a key high school, parents silently read the' tightening spell' around their children, admitted to a key high school, and satisfied their vanity. Egged on by' parents', the school took self-study classes before dawn, made up lessons after dark, took new classes on Saturday and Sunday, and made up lessons for the school year on holidays, so the teacher became the' head teacher' of a Japanese company. At the same time, in order to grind away students' various "edges and corners" and succumb to the atrocities of "parents", the school adopted a militarized management and high-pressure policy, and under the encouragement of several "pseudo-scientists" indirectly inspired by foreign countries, it suppressed students' various whimsy crazily, thus nipping China people's innovation ability in the bud! Satisfied the desire of' parents' to make China fall behind in science.

Physiologically, the five internal organs begin to develop again after the development of internal organs is completed. The five internal organs belong to yin, and the six internal organs belong to yang. The development of' Yin' takes a certain time, just like the solidification of cement, which requires strict time and water wetting. Parents are eager to take care of these things and adopt the method of drying and stirring to accelerate solidification and molding. The strength of this cement after solidification is even worse than that of mud after drying. Chinese medicine says: the essence of food is supplied to the five zang-organs after steaming, and the sign of good development of the five zang-organs is the maturity of sperm and eggs, that is, the arrival of puberty. No developed internal organs, like an empty corn bag! Life will die at any time after that!

During the development of the five internal organs, children are awakened in the early morning sleep, stuffed with food, and begin to feel sleepy when they enter the classroom. The' monitor' can make you sleep, and all kinds of' torture' are waiting for the children. As soon as the frightened child's abdomen closes, the body automatically transfers the vitality supporting the five internal organs to the brain for class. Really? Please experiment for yourself: when we are sleepy, we will naturally yawn and wake up after playing. Yawning refers to closing the abdomen and squeezing the five internal organs to force out the essence. Closing the abdomen will make people feel refreshed, that is, mobilizing the vitality of the five internal organs. Five yuan gods (spleen, kidney, liver, soul and lung) are controlling the process of life (if you think' yuan gods' are superstitious, you can also call them five' Fuwa').

"The five internal organs and blood supply the eyes, and the eyes can see." Junior high school students are nearsighted and weak in vision, and their eyesight can meet the requirements of air force pilots, which makes China's sky portal wide open! Happy parents! ! !

Our' pseudo-scientists' also argue that the high myopia rate in primary and secondary schools in China is hereditary and has nothing to do with the length of study, and even say that' eye exercises' are deceptive! This' pseudo-scientist' was also cultivated by our parents and mothers. Where does his high academic status lead us? Who should we blame?

The children have to do their homework when they come back at night, and the five Fuwa can't rest until late at night. The development of the five internal organs is flawed because there is not enough raw material and time. The five internal organs did not develop well during the development period, so it is difficult to make up for this defect in the future. Parents send their children of this age to college in advance! This is the root cause of' young death, envy of talents, young death'! It also promotes those congenital diseases that are difficult, expensive and incurable, that is, difficult and expensive! Samsara!

In recent years, the recruits who joined the army are weak and unable to complete normal training, and national security is greatly threatened!

Originally in the period of rapid physical development, many minor illnesses, such as headache, brain fever, cold and fever, can be cured by some indigenous methods that have been circulated among the people for thousands of years. The key is to have a good rest, even a day's sleep. Parents were afraid of missing classes, so they gave their children a lot of antibiotics, injections and infusions. Finally, their condition became more and more serious, but they often got sick, which laid a good foundation for sending money to the hospital in the future.

Those teenagers go to college, and there is no teacher in the university to' love' you. It is easy for others to bully you and take it out on you. All you have to do is take the postgraduate entrance examination, get a doctorate, be a teacher or go abroad to brush test tubes for foreigners and check information. In society, you are nothing. In the end,' being able to live the life of an ordinary worker' became the dream of the parents of these' excellent' children. Where were you proud of at the beginning?

The task of China's study falls on middle school students, but what they learn is only the surface of scientific knowledge. Crazy' teaching without infertility' solidified superficial knowledge. How difficult it is to break through the solidified layer in the future, and it is not easy to innovate, because you must first destroy the solidified thinking mode! Countries that cannot innovate have no hope, and' parents' are happy again.

The sixth level. 18-20 PK in the mature period of body, mind and brain in high school makes up lessons for the final destruction with higher, stronger and longer mock exams, and because the pleasure of taking exams is the same as drug addiction!

"To get into a key university and get ahead" and "The demon roars in the urn", the spell is pronounced faster!

The school is like a forest. There are many kinds of trees, some tall and straight, some flowering, some not flowering and no fruit. What kind of tree do parents recognize? Women love flowers, just like flowers. Going to college is tantamount to flowers. Can it bear fruit? Whatever!

The enrollment rate is similar to the flowering rate. What is the result? Who cares? Parents recognize flowers, and the school explains that as long as we spend more and watch the fun, our students will be guaranteed, whether it bears fruit or not.

In order to attract insects to receive pollen (to attract parents to pay money at school), fruit trees that bloom in advance are usually' swaying flowers'. Most of them sacrificed' hue' and failed to blossom and bear fruit. Those that can bear fruit are first vulnerable to pests and diseases, not delicious and not easy to preserve. It bears many fruits after flowering late, is resistant to pests and diseases, and is delicious and storable. What a sharp contrast! Thousands of years of facts have proved that young geniuses are prone to die when they grow up, and there are few records of young geniuses who really contribute to society and live long.

In order to prepare for the college entrance examination and compress the study curriculum, senior three students do a lot of test questions day and night, one after another. At this time, it is the peak of brain development,' good test scores can solve difficult problems and have a bright future'. Those children with particularly good grades are constantly praised by the' head parents', and their hearts are full of joy, and their brains are busy building a responsive and happy channel. With the continuous stimulation and strengthening of the channel, the pleasure is getting stronger and stronger. It's definitely not sensational, it has existed for a long time, but it hasn't appeared on a large scale yet! The disease itself is to establish illegal' pathways' inside and outside the body.

In order to attend key high schools, buy houses and transfer ownership, help real estate developers make money, push up housing prices and escalate corruption.

Confused! You can live a good life by going to college? Stop dreaming! Look at those candidates in the 1970s and 1980s. In the past, the enrollment rate of universities was around 2%, so all the students admitted were elites, right? Look at the results now: at that time, most students admitted to universities were not as high as those admitted to technical secondary schools, and they were not as good as those admitted to technical secondary schools, because the majors of technical secondary schools at that time were: industry and commerce, taxation, transportation, banking, justice, public security, procuratorial work, posts and telecommunications, customs and so on. Now it's all power departments and civil servants. At that time, the technical schools were: electricity, oil and so on. , are now resource monopoly departments. At that time, people who were admitted to technical secondary schools were also very happy, but compared with those who were admitted to universities, they were not as good as themselves! What about now? Feng shui has turned? Moreover, there are still high school students who have not been admitted to any school, but some of them have become the leaders of economic development in various industries. Didn't you say' knowledge changes fate'? What's the matter? Don't be naive to think that the present is different from the past, but what about the future? Can you predict it? Learn more and don't use it. Is it a burden or a burden!

The success of personal career and the accumulation of wealth have nothing to do with how many schools you go to, how high your education is, and how many certificates you have. On the contrary, the law that can be found out is that education is inversely proportional to wealth. Think about it, knowledge is wealth. With so much knowledge and money, how can others live? Therefore, people with knowledge should help people without knowledge to create wealth. Therefore, those who are very rich have almost no academic qualifications, and some of them are not good at learning.

For thousands of years, people have come to the conclusion that reading is really impossible to change fate. Therefore, the saying of "superstition" is: a person with two luck, three geomantic omen, four virtues and five studies. For example, why do enterprises in China have short life spans? I also studied MBA. Why not? The most important thing is that we don't want to do it. Foreign countries call it: protecting the environment, benefiting the society, charitable donation; China called: Good deeds are also called blue sky and green water projects, which benefit the country and the people and protect the vulnerable groups. How many China enterprises have really done it? As long as you can do it, your career will not fail. Being a man is the same. You always want to beat others by competition and take advantage of the world. In the end, you will be eliminated. Behind the success is the accumulation of Ford, which is true!

Level seven. When the university matures physically and mentally, it begins to think independently. If PK's physical and mental defects begin to attack, then take the postgraduate entrance examination, go abroad and escape from the real society.

After college, most of them stopped destroying children because their parents were exhausted! Break down from overwork, strange disease! When the child's body no longer develops, in a few years, with the emergence of various life pressures, the original body did not develop well and began to get sick. There is nothing the hospital can do. Don't blame the hospital! The doctor is also very tired! For example, the development of enterprises, development is used to cover up contradictions and problems. At the beginning, it was to cover up all kinds of fatal management loopholes and system defects by expanding the scale. Once the enterprise stops developing, all kinds of problems appear and get bigger and bigger. In the end, enterprises have fallen and people have fallen. Traditional Chinese medicine says "heaven and man are one" and "go to traditional Chinese medicine".

Of course, all kinds of diseases don't break out at once, and people are finished. Most diseases are' slow-release capsules', which are slowly released to torment people. But when children grow up and get married, they return to the starting point and start a new round of evil.

Which of the above seven grades did your child pass?

Originally in China, women were kind mothers. Why do they become as cruel as their parents? What did this man do? Women have knowledge and want men to make big money outside, but the outside world is too wonderful, the world is too tempting and has unlimited desires. You are powerful without desire. How many strong men do you think there are now? It's up to parents to harm children or not. Men can only cry! The era of loving mothers in strict father is over!

What exactly is where uber works? This problem occurs on a large scale? Let China's social problems continue?

If you think about it carefully, the current education is also somewhat unreasonable. For example, it would be great for smart children to get a really good education! You got all the benefits. Can anyone still live? So they were admitted to the' key' school and erased their excellent talents. Now key primary and secondary schools, including kindergartens (so-called' quality teaching resources') do harm to children, and finally use steel molds to turn children into obedient and tied sheep!

Those parents with rich families will also think like this:' I have achieved such a large scale, so much wealth and so many highly educated people working for me without going to school for a few days. If I know more and don't pay high salaries to hire those people, I will make more money! So when I lost my mind, I sent my children to an' aristocratic school' to study hard. What should I study? Let children develop the character of spending money like water, let their money dissipate as soon as possible, and return wealth to the people. Wealth is only passed down for three generations!

Children from poor families, those who are' disobedient', those who don't like to finish their homework, and those who are serious about their subjects are less poisoned by exam-oriented education. If they can be tempered by life and have a strong will, they will become a climate when they grow up. This is a causal cycle. Very natural!