"If you want to communicate with children, you must learn to listen. Listening is the premise of effective communication with children. If you don't listen or don't know how to listen, you don't know what the child is thinking, and you don't even know what the child is thinking. What about communication? " It can be seen that listening is the first step of parent-child communication.

Karl witte, an American educator, said, "In the process of educating Carl, I gradually gained some experience in communicating with children, one of which I call' the art of listening'. People's thoughts often need to be expressed through language. If you don't want to listen to your children, how can you fully understand them? If you don't know them, it is more difficult to communicate with them. Therefore, only by listening attentively to children's voices can we capture effective information and find the breakthrough point of education.

As parents of children, only by listening to their children carefully can they interact in communication. Otherwise, the child will be impatient before he finishes two sentences, which will hurt the child's self-esteem. Therefore, as a competent parent, you should learn to listen and be willing to listen. Only in this way can you really learn to feel and grasp the children's joys and sorrows from their confidences, truly understand the children, effectively resolve their troubles with their parents' thoughtfulness, and create a warm family environment full of love.

Children are a world. Parents should learn to listen, listen to their words, listen to their voices, listen to their understanding of the world and their dreams for the future. Only in this way can we better enter the depths of children's hearts. How to do this well, there are the following principles:

1. Show great patience and tell the children.

Don't get bored because children talk too long. Parents should be good at controlling their emotions and listen to their children patiently. Especially when children express their opinions or are angry, they should listen patiently and provide children with opportunities to express their feelings, which will help solve the problem.

2. Show interest in the child's conversation

If you show great interest in your children's conversation with them, you will not only open a channel between you and your children, but also make them feel important. If the child senses that you are not interested in his conversation, it will be difficult for him to be interested in telling you what he really thinks. Therefore, when listening to your child, you should pay attention, correct your attitude, focus on your child's eyes as much as possible, and don't do actions that affect your child's mood, such as watching your watch, digging your ears, yawning, etc., so that your child will feel that you are absent-minded.

Don't interrupt the child's conversation

In the process of listening, parents should keep calm and not get emotional. Avoid interrupting your child, even if the first few words mean nothing to you. Hold your horses and don't ask some details at first, even if these questions can show your interest, because it may distract your child's thinking, especially if he wants to say something difficult to express.