Suffering education has a complicated influence on children's growth. On the one hand, suffering education can make children more tenacious, brave and confident, so as to better cope with the challenges in life. On the other hand, excessive suffering education may bring psychological trauma to children and affect their character formation and mental health.

Therefore, parents should properly carry out suffering education according to their children's actual situation and needs. When educating their children, parents should pay attention to cultivating their self-confidence and independence, and at the same time pay attention to protecting their mental health.