When I was growing up, my parents didn't educate me in this respect, perhaps because they always had some resistance to this kind of education and didn't know how to talk to me. In fact, this is understandable. After all, for my parents' generation, their ideas are still relatively traditional, and they did not receive such education when they were young. Therefore, when their children grow up, they naturally feel that there is no need to give them education in this area. Many families have guardians with their daughters, and their daughters are very upset. Daughters are no worse than sons, relatively weak in society and vulnerable to all kinds of violations. In particular, I am worried when I see reports that girls have been violated in the news. In order to protect their children, we must first protect ourselves, and the sex education of guardians is a necessary prerequisite. Let's investigate together.

How should parents give their daughters sex education?

1, start as soon as possible

To conduct sex education for daughters, we must seize the three golden periods of sex education as soon as possible. 0~6 years old, mainly to let her have a preliminary understanding of gender, know that boys and girls are different, and tell them basic health knowledge. For example, don't touch your private parts, don't let others touch your private parts, and so on. From the age of 7 to adolescence, I hope parents can tell their daughters how to protect their bodies, and if they are hurt, they should tell their parents in time. After puberty, we should choose the right time to talk about sex with our children and tell them what sex is and how to protect themselves during sex.

Step by step

Sex education can't be completed in one or two conversations, and it takes a long time to communicate. Parents must master this degree and don't worry too much. Be sure to make a good start and build a good communication bridge with your children. Speaking of this, the child suggested that communication has not yet arrived and the communication method is incorrect. Parents seek professional advice, listen to sex education courses more, and make adjustments according to their actual situation.

3. Don't be too tough.

Many parents have two extremes when facing their daughters. 1 extreme is extreme doting, and the second extreme is extreme toughness. No matter which extreme, we can't be too tough on sex education. From the beginning, it is easy to deviate from the child's sexual concept by teaching and criticizing. It is easy to make children feel disgusted and disgusted, thinking that sex is dirty and evil, which is not conducive to her future development.

4. always pay attention to protect yourself.

Facing girls of different ages, it is very important to protect yourself. When you are young, don't let others touch your private parts. When you are old, you should know how to refuse others' pursuit of you. At the age when you shouldn't fall in love and eat fruit, you'd better not try it easily. When you encounter emotional problems that you can't solve, you should actively seek the help of your parents and don't bear it alone. It's not your own fault to get hurt. Tell your parents to protect you.

5. Pay attention to the construction of three views.

Sex education should not only impart sexual knowledge, but also form three views. Some girls are vain, like the pursuit of boys, don't give boys clear information, and it is easy to get hurt when walking between different boys. Parents should tell these girls to refuse if they don't like it, and don't covet other people's things. We should establish correct three views and maintain noble character.

Parents with daughters are always worried. Actually, it's normal to worry. While ensuring the healthy growth of children, we should also do a good job in sex education. The consequences of lack of sex education are more serious. The above are the problems that need to be paid attention to in sex education for daughters, hoping to help parents.

The education I received when I was growing up came not from my parents, but from my school. That was when I was in the sixth grade of primary school and the second grade of junior high school. The school has specially set up courses in this field, which has given me a certain understanding of this aspect. Although the knowledge I learned in school is relatively shallow, it also ensures my healthy and happy growth to a great extent, so that I will no longer feel confused and confused in the process of growing up and have a chance to have one.

Now I have children of my own. Although my children are only in primary school now, when my children reach a certain age, I will educate them in this respect, so that they can truly realize their physical and psychological changes, face their growth in a more mature state, try to avoid all kinds of confusion in the process of growth, and make themselves a person.

Qualified parents who are truly responsible.