The road of children's growth is ever-changing, influenced by many factors such as family, education, social culture and so on. So we can't simply blame the behavior of adult children on their parents' education. If your children let you down when they grow up, the following suggestions may point you in the right direction.

Deep dialogue

Communicate with children heart to heart, deeply understand their inner world and explore the root of the problem together. During the dialogue, keep calm and avoid conflict.

search one's heart

Review your own education methods and try to adjust them.

Professional assistance

If the child's problem is serious, seek the help of a psychologist or family therapist to deal with it together.

Set the boundary

Clarify the rules of getting along with children and let them know what they can and can't do.

Set a good example

Parents' words and deeds are the best teaching materials for children. Pass on the values of respect, care and compliance with social rules through your own behavior.

Unconditional love

No matter how your children are, give them love and support and let them know that you are always behind them.

wait patiently

Change cannot happen overnight. Give children enough time to wait for flowers to bloom.