Emperor Kangxi of the Qing Dynasty taught his son to treat others with tolerance, kindness and forbearance, and to be happy for others when he saw what others were proud of. You should feel pity when you see others frustrated. If a person is always jealous of others' success and gloats over others' failures, how can he get along with others? Doing so will only make your mind worse. The ancients said, "What you get from others is what you get from yourself. Seeing the loss of others is like losing yourself. " God will bless those who think so.

Indeed, people who are not jealous will sincerely bless and be happy for others to have better looks, greater wealth, higher talents and more happiness, and their cultivation is incomparable to ordinary people. On the other hand, a jealous person, whether he shows it or not, will always let himself live in discontent, even maliciously slander and hurt others, and ultimately harm others and himself. There are many such examples in the history of China.

Shen was outraged when he learned that the Buddha had sent Jiang Ziya to deify him, because in his view, compared with himself, Jiang Ziya's practice time was only forty years, and he had no skill, but he had thousands of years of cultivation and superb skills. Why can he be deified? So, driven by jealousy, Shen's reckless tyranny blocked the destruction of Jiang Ziya in many ways, resulting in the destruction of countless lives and thousands of monks in the struggle. After Jiang Ziya destroyed the business, Shen was first pressed to Gongqilin Cliff, and then blocked by Beihai Eye. After his death, Jiang Ziya made him a general in the East China Sea. After all, he still has 1000 years of experience.

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This article is about a jealous man who killed him in the Song Dynasty during the Southern and Northern Dynasties. Now, there is a man named Yin. His great-grandfather worked in the Jin Dynasty, and his grandfather was also an outstanding official. Because he seldom achieved great success, Stuart Wang Mi admired him very much and married his daughter. Because he "doesn't learn to be a writer, he is sensitive and thoughtful, not benevolent and profound; As for the courtiers of the national code, the old chapters are annotated, and everyone who knows them knows that they have contemporary ambitions. " Learn instead of writing, be quick-thinking, unreasonable, know the general idea, copy the old rules and regulations of the state code and court etiquette, and those who know him know his aspirations in this world. His career is also very smooth, and Song Gaozu also asked him to do it. When he was a young emperor, he was appointed General Zuo Wei.

In the period, Yin was also valued and transferred to the middle school, while the general remained unchanged. At that time, he, right general Wang Hua, general Wang Tanshou and four followers Liu Zhan were all in the Prime Minister's Office. They were all crowned with extraordinary bearing and outstanding talent, and Yin He was a very good friend. They once met privately: "If you have money, you will never forget each other!"

Song Wendi

Later, Yin was first promoted to be a servant of Shangshu, and became a person around the emperor, while Liu Zhan worked outside. Due to the successive deaths of several important ministers, Yin, who never forgot his original promise, recommended Liu Zhan to Wendi several times, and Liu Zhan was able to take power in the DPRK.

But what Yin didn't expect was that Liu Zhan not only didn't appreciate him, but also thought that his status and treatment should not have surpassed him. Now that he is in front of himself, he is very angry. Before Emperor Wen, he had many complaints about Yin. In order to quell Liu Zhan's discontent, Wendi promoted them at the same time, and awarded them to Yin Cishi and China Guards respectively, while Liu Zhan was appointed as Prince Zhan, with the same level. But Liu Zhan is still not satisfied, because the actual power of Yin is greater than himself. Liu Zhan is more jealous of Ren Jing.

Knowing that Wendi trusted Ren Jing very much, Liu Zhan secretly colluded with Liu Yikang, the king of Situ Pengcheng, and asked him to vilify Ren Jing in front of Wendi. Wendi sometimes relayed some words to Jingren. Jing Ren once sighed and said to his relatives and friends, "I introduced Liu Zhan to North Korea, and he bit people as soon as he came." So he resigned due to illness and resigned from the emperor many times, but he was never allowed. Wendi asked him to rest at home and sent someone to visit him.

Liu Zhan did not restrain himself because of Ren Jing's concession. So he discussed with Peng to send someone outside to pretend to be a thief and kill him. He thought that even if Wendi knew, he probably wouldn't do anything to them, because the emperor wouldn't hurt his own flesh and blood after all. Emperor Wen may have sensed their plot, so he moved Ren Jing to the Jinjingyang mansion in the west field and took strict precautions. Liu Zhan and others' plot failed in this way.

Jingren stayed in bed for five years. Although I haven't seen the emperor, I have secret correspondence with him, reaching more than ten letters every day. Emperors of all ages have asked him. But they are very close, and no one outside knows the secret.

Jealousy made Liu Zhan even crazier. He decided to take risks, secretly formed a clique, and plotted to establish Liu Yikang as emperor, because only when Liu Yikang ascended the throne could Yin be killed. The rebellion was soon discovered by Emperor Wen, and Liu Zhan and his henchmen were arrested. On the day of his arrest, Jingren had his clothes tidied up, because he had been in bed for a long time, and his left and right men didn't know his intentions. That evening, the emperor summoned Jingren from Yanxiantang in Hualien Garden and handed over Liu Zhan's trial to him. Liu Zhan was executed for treason.

Similarly, during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, Sun Bin and Pang Juan turned against each other because of jealousy. They used to be friends of their classmates. Sun Bin is more talented than Pang Juan. After Pang Juan became a general in Wei, he invited Sun Bin to his home for fear that Sun Bin would surpass himself. He also cut off his feet and tattooed his face through framing and persecution. Sun Bin managed to escape by playing dumb, and was appointed as a military adviser in Qi. Then he killed Pang Juan in the war.

Bin Sun

There are also Li Si and Han Fei in the Qin Dynasty. Li Si admired Han Fei's talent and showed his article to Qin Shihuang. When Qin Shihuang saw Han Fei, he wanted to take him to Xianyang. But Li Si was jealous and spoke ill of Han Fei, which led to Han Fei's imprisonment. Li Si took the opportunity to send poison to kill him. Later, after Qin Shihuang's death, Li Si helped eunuch Zhao Gao to frame his son Fu Su and let Qin Shihuang's youngest son, Hu Hai, ascend to the throne. Reese, who had auxiliary functions, was finally killed by Zhao Gao, killing the three families.

Hugo, a great French writer, once said, "Anyone who is jealous is cruel." Too much jealousy can make people crazy and do unreasonable things. Therefore, if a person wants to get rid of the dark psychology of jealousy, he must start from the small things around him and treat people and things with generosity and kindness.