The baby is so curious that he wants to touch everything. If you don't understand this confused psychological state, it will easily lead to the baby's dissatisfaction and "disobedience" if you think that the baby is going to importune and be naughty and restrict his behavior, or even reprimand and scold.
With the rapid development of physical fitness, the baby's physical exercise ability is gradually improved, and he has an abnormal expectation of increasing his own leisure space, so he constantly tries to do new things alone. At this time, many treasure mothers will stop and limit the baby's movements, which will lead to the baby's bad mood. Of course, they will sing against their mother, so they are "disobedient".
Parents should keep a steady state of mind, listen to their children's voices patiently, pay attention to their real intentions and guide them from a positive perspective when facing their children's disobedience. Don't complain. When educating children, don't complain, but don't express it in offensive language. Even if the child does do something wrong, it needs to be emphasized correctly, not to mention the past, or even to compare with other children. On the contrary, this method will make children bored, cause dissatisfaction and become more disobedient.
Treat children fairly and sincerely. Parents should let go of their hands and feet in the process of communicating with their children and choose the attitude of good friends to talk to their children. Ask the child's voice patiently. If the child is right, there is no need to deny the child for face. If the child is wrong, you can guide the child to think diligently, and his own thinking is not quite right. Avoid violent tendencies. Chen Heqin, a famous educator in China, once said: "Soft teaching methods can enter children's hearts, while rude and rash methods can only push children further and further."
When children are disobedient, parents must control their emotions, and they should not yell at their children angrily or scold them rudely. That can't solve the difficulties at all, but it will make the children more and more rebellious.
Make rules carefully. Parents can communicate with their children seriously, set a standard in advance, and add a reward and punishment system to guide their children to abide by discipline. It should be noted that parents should pay attention to their attitude and intonation in the process of communication, and peacefully remind their children not to forget the standards and not to project their subjective emotions into communication with their children.
Children's logical thinking ability and understanding ability are still in a relatively limited period, so parents should give their children time to accept, understand and correct their mistakes, and cannot stipulate that children should immediately realize the correct method. Children's actions should be accumulated bit by bit in daily life, and disobedience cannot be separated from the long-term guidance and guidance of parents. Parents can't ignore it, they should correct it patiently in time, otherwise it will cause irreparable harm to their children's life.