. Love is a feeling that men and women, based on a certain social foundation and a common ideal of life, form in their own hearts, eager to develop intimate relations and each other to become their lifelong partners. Sex, ideal and responsibility are the three basic elements of love.
The concept of love will also change in different stages of life, especially in different stages of marriage. Men tend to fall in love with women's young beauty, while women tend to fall in love with men's wealth status. But the love that everyone needs to find is different, and the experience of adolescence is the most important influence on a person's choice of lover.
Therefore, parents should conduct correct sex education and love education for their children from an early age.
Love education should be carried out simultaneously with sex education, which is the best way to avoid sexual mistakes in adolescence. It is a positive way to let the pure concept of love overcome the physiological impulse and let the children complete a necessary lesson in life in a happy mood.
Everyone has different views on love, so love education can't become preaching, and parents can't impose their own values on their children, which will affect their attitude towards love in the future. The best way is to combine guidance and discussion, so that children can have an understanding of love from an early age, and this understanding will form their own attitude towards love as he grows deeper and deeper.
There are more human freedoms and rights in today's society. Since the seeds of love, boys and girls have their own secrets. As they grow up, they realize the ups and downs of love. With their own inexperience, they can distinguish between love and hate, right and wrong, and their understanding of the problem is very limited and blind. Therefore, it should be guided by the mature and scientific concept of love.
Teenagers, especially primary and secondary school students, are the golden age of life, and also an important period for the formation of outlook on life, world outlook and values. They are easy to accept new things and have strong plasticity. A correct and mature view of love is conducive to the physical and mental health of teenagers, and at the same time, it is also improving their outlook on life, world outlook and values.
A correct view of love should be conducive to family happiness and social harmony. However, due to the lack of sex education and love education in China, many children will feel confused and confused when they enter the developmental stage. ...
I suffered from it, too.
Because I didn't receive any education about "sex" when I was a child, the first nocturnal emission frightened me, thinking that something had happened to me, and I couldn't sleep well during that time, but I was afraid to tell others. It took me another n years to know what was going on, so I thought, when I become a father, I must tell my children the changes in adolescence in advance so that they can spend their adolescence happily. Many years have passed, and my daughter is over 10. In addition to putting some books about adolescence beside her bed, I also introduced her related knowledge and told her that dad would celebrate for you when her period came.
When 12 and a half-year-old daughter, ushered in the menarche in life, because the previous education was in place, the daughter was not caught off guard by the sudden changes in her body, but did everything in an orderly manner like welcoming old friends. I also held a small family celebration for her with her mother and sister to congratulate her on her further growth.
I have been educating Yiyi about sex since I was a child. When I was five or six years old, I took her to the Natural History Museum to see the human body exhibition, so that she could understand the similarities and differences between men and women. After the children passed 10, apart from sex education, I also gave them love education from time to time.
The child communicated with me with a little shyness and expressed her thoughts. Through communication, she further understood "love".