Educating children is a problem that every family faces. Nowadays, children are very headstrong and naughty, and some parents will yell at their children when they are angry. This habit is very bad, and the child is still young, which is the period of character formation.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Every word and deed of parents, children will learn to follow suit, so that children will follow suit when dealing with problems. Over time, it will form a grumpy character. Some children tend to be violent.
This has a great negative impact on the formation of children's character. Some children are very timid. If you yell at them, she will be more afraid. When children grow up, they will be timid and unable to take on big responsibilities.
I think the child must have done something wrong. You yell at the children. It will definitely be bad for children after a long time. Because he has become a habit, you have no patience with him. On the contrary, he has no patience with you. Over time, children's hearts are prone to violent tendencies. Imagine if he encounters anything unhappy outside and has an argument with others. Don't you think he will make a hullabaloo about?
Parents often yell at their children, which will have a great influence on them.
First, if parents yell at their children, they will feel that their children are not doing well, so they will have no confidence.
Second, parents yelling at their children will have a deterrent effect on them, and their children will become timid, defective in character, not sunny, not cheerful, not confident, not social, not self-motivated and so on. All this is caused by ignorant parents. Therefore, if you want to be a qualified parent on the road of parenting, you must first make yourself better. Only in this way can you be comfortable on the road of parenting.
Taking care of children is a very tiring process. Mothers may work hard. Sometimes children can't do things according to their mother's ideas, or feel a gap when compared with other children.
However, yelling at your baby often leads to your baby showing violence, fear, inferiority and self-confidence in front of others. Severe autism may be. As a mother, please don't vent or shout in front of your children.
Therefore, parents must treat their children gently. When encountering problems, we should calm down, accept their emotions unconditionally, tolerate them, communicate with them calmly, and truly understand the reasons behind their behavior.
When you really understand the reasons behind your behavior, I think you will stop yelling at your children. So the child is your mirror. You yell at him, and he will yell at you. You smile at him, and he smiles back at you.